Pamene anthu amandifunsa za maubwenzi anga a platonic, chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'maganizo ndi kukumbukira bwenzi laubwana. Ife nthawizonse tinkayenda palimodzi, ndithudi titagwira manja, ndipo ngakhale nthawizina, pa nthawi ya kusintha kwa usiku kwa makolo a winawake, ife tinkagona pa bedi limodzi lalikulu, mwamtendere akuwombera aliyense mu theka lathu. Mawu otsimikizika akuti "Tili-tiri-mtanda!" Anatizunza ife kulikonse; Mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi! "Sitikumveka mochititsa manyazi kwambiri, ngati nyimbo kwa mapulani athu aakulu.
Choncho, tiyeni tizindikire pamodzi kuti mawu akuti "chiyanjano" amatanthauza chiyani. Mwachikhalidwe, mawu awa akutanthauza ubale wachikondi wapamwamba kwambiri, umene palibe kugonana konse.
Ngati tikamba za nkhani zapamwamba, chikondi cha mayi kwa mwanayo, kumverera kwa wophunzira wake wokondedwa kwa aphunzitsi ake, chikondi cha Atateland, kwa Mulungu akhoza kukhala zitsanzo zabwino kwambiri za maubwenzi a platonic.
Koma tiyeni tibwerere ku chikondi cha mgwirizano wa platonic. Inde, pali zifukwa zabwino zowonjezera - mwachitsanzo, msinkhu wa zaka zingapo kapena matenda ena omwe salola kuti akhale ndi moyo wachiwerewere. Pano mungapereke zitsanzo zochuluka kuchokera kuzinthu zamakono. Mwachitsanzo, "Kutha ndi Mphepo" Ashley Wilks anakakamizika kusiya moyo wa kugonana ndi mkazi wake, chifukwa sakanatha kubereka. Koma kawirikawiri kukongola kwa platonic ndi sitepe yoyamba yokwera ku mtengo wokoma wotchedwa Chikondi. Pambuyo pake, chikondi chenicheni chimayamba ndi kuyamikira chinthu chomwe timamva ndi maloto a maubwenzi okongola, enieni ndi oyera.
Mkhalidwe wa maloto okhudza chikondi chachikondi umaphatikizapo kupezeka kwa msilikali amene amavomereza chifukwa cha mkazi wake chifukwa cha chidwi ndi kulimba mtima, ngakhale amisala. Ndipo dona wa mtima kwa iye, ndithudi, ali wabwino ndi mulungu wosatheka, umene umakhudza ndi zosatheka kuganiza.
Zikuwoneka, izi zikukhudzana bwanji ndi moyo weniweni? Kodi n'zotheka m'nthawi yathu kukhala chikondi chotchedwa platonic?
Ndipotu, chodabwitsa chimenechi n'chofala, makamaka pakati pa achinyamata. Ndi m'badwo uno momwe kukopa kwa Plato ndi gawo labwino la kukula kwa maganizo / maganizo a munthu.
Mwachidziwikire, aliyense wa ife adzakumbukira wophunzira wa sekondale, yemwe adayamba kuyang'ana kusukulu kusintha, komanso ngakhale aphunzitsi ena achichepere, omwe ali ndi maphunziro oopsa. Nthawi zambiri, ngakhale kuti maloto amakhudzidwa, amangoyang'ana komanso amawononga, tinakumbukira za kugonana kwa banal.
Kawirikawiri pamsinkhu uwu, ndizodabwitsa kudzipezera mafano pakati pa ochita masewero, ojambula otchuka ndi ochita nawo pawonetsero pa TV. Ndipotu, mgwirizano wauzimu woterewu patali komanso momwe ungathere mokwanira kumatsimikizira kufunikira kokhala ndi malingaliro okwezeka ndi okhutira pa chinthu chawo cholambirira, koma pa nthawi yomweyi sichidzipangitsa kukhala ndi zotsatira zake. Chabwino, kuunika kwa malingaliro, kupezeka kwa chinthu chopembedzera kumapangitsa kuti chidziwitso cha mgwirizano wa platonic chisakumbukike. Ndani samakumbukira chikondi chake choyamba ?!
Zonsezi, ndithudi, zimakhala zowawa kwambiri, koma akatswiri a maganizo amanena kuti kukopa kwaplanonic kulikonse kumayenera kupita ku siteji ya kuzindikira kwake, mwachitsanzo, kuyesa kukopa chidwi, kukhalabe nokha, ndi zina zotero. Izi ndi zomwe achinyamata amaphunzira kuyankhulana ndi anyamata anzawo, akukonzekera kusintha kwa maubwenzi akuluakulu. Kuchokera ku kukhazikitsidwa bwino kwa ntchitoyi kumadalira moyo wawo wonse wam'tsogolo ndi zomwe zidzakhale.
Ngati tikulankhula za anthu achikulire omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino, ndi zachilendo komanso zachilendo, ngati ndi chiyanjano cha uzimu pakati pawo padzakhala kukondana wina ndi mzake.
Inde, munthu ali ndi chiyanjano pa siteji ya kulankhulana kwapoponic kumatenga nthawi yayitali, osachepera. Zimadalira pazinthu zambiri: kulera, kuopa kusayesedwa, kuopseza kutenthedwa, kusasinthasintha kwa khalidwe, ndikung'ono kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti maloto achikondi okhudzana ndi Choyenera sichiwononga moyo wanu ndi kuyembekezera kosatha kapena kuyesedwa kwa mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni. Ndipo dzifunseni nokha: ziribe kanthu kuti timalota bwanji za chikondi chenicheni, ndidziwe kuti ndinu wofunikira kwa munthu wanu, zimatipangitsa kukhala osangalaladi ndi kudzidalira mwa ife eni komanso mu ubale.