Kukula kwa kudzidalira

Munthu amene amadzikhulupirira yekha, mwa mphamvu yake, ndi munthu wopambana. Zoonadi izi sizinthu zokha zomwe aliyense amafunikira kukhala nazo, koma chifukwa cha kudzidalira, munthu akhoza kupeza moyo umene adzadzilemekeze yekha.

Kukula kwa kudzidalira ndikofunikira kwa ana ndi akulu. Kukulitsa kudzidalira sikofunikira, koma n'kofunikanso, koma sikupindula mofulumira monga momwe tingafunire. Zimaphatikizapo kugwiritsa ntchito khama linalake. Koma zotsatira zake ndi zoyenera kuchita.

Ndikutsimikiza kuti munthu amene ali ndi nthaka yofunikira pansi pa mapazi ake. Katswiri m'munda wake, munthu yemwe ali ndi nzeru m'mutu mwake nthawi zonse amatetezedwa ndi izi ndipo amakonzekera chirichonse. Koma kudzidalira nokha kumakhudzidwa ndi malo anu, kukhala okhulupirika kwa inu.

Chidaliro chidzalola munthu kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino ku moyo, ku zovuta zirizonse. Kukula kwa kudzidalira, kudzidalira kukuthandizani kuti mukhale wokongola.

Zochita kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro:

1. Samalani pamene mukumverera osatetezeka, komanso pamene mukusiyana. Fufuzani zozungulira zanu nthawi zina, zochita zanu. Ganizirani zomwe mungasinthe kuti mukhale otsimikiza nthawi zonse.
2. Musaganizire pa maganizo a ena za inu. Dziwitseni nokha kuti anthu amadziganizira kwambiri kuposa wina aliyense.
3. Uzani achibale anu za zolephera zanu ndi zofooka zanu. Mverani thandizo lawo. Khulupirirani maluso anu.
4. Fufuzani mawu omwe mumanena nokha. Kodi mwazindikira kuti mukudzitcha nokha ngati munthu wopusa? Kumbukirani kuti kudzidalira kumayamba ndi malingaliro anu.

Kukhulupirira Kulimbikitsidwa Maphunziro

Nazi zitsanzo za maphunziro apadera:

1. Sankhani mtundu umene mumayanjana ndi kudzidalira. Lolani mtundu uwu utenge selo iliyonse ya thupi lanu, mitsempha yonse. Mvetserani momwe mukukhudzira ndi mphamvu ya munthu wodalirika.
2. Tangoganizani kuti mwaimirira pakati pa holo yaikulu momwe onse owonerera akuyima kuti akukwazeni. Pamutu mwanu muli ndi korona - chizindikiro cha chidaliro. Kamwetulira kwambiri, khalani ndi chidaliro mu luso lanu
3. Taganizirani utawaleza. Lili ndizolemba "Ndikukhulupirira ndekha". Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo mawu amveka kuchokera kumwamba, omwe amati "Ndiri wokhutira kwambiri."

Kukula kwa chikhulupiliro

Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu akhale ndi chidaliro, kukhala pakati pa anthu ena. Pano pali zochitika zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi chikhulupiliro.

Pali otsogolera ambiri. Wophunzira wina akufunsidwa kuchoka m'chipinda. Pakati pa anthu otsala, mtsogoleri ndi zochita zosankhidwa ndi munthu yemwe alibe chipinda amasankhidwa. Nkhaniyo imabwereranso ndipo iyenera kuchita zomwe anthu ena akusankha (kulumpha, kusuntha zinthu, ndi zina zotero). Mtsogoleri wosankhidwa ndi mawu ngati "zabwino" amathandiza phunzirolo kuti lifike ku zofunazo. Pa zochitikazi, maganizo a anthu omwe ali nawo gawo sakuvomereza.

Kotero, kudzidalira kumathandiza munthu aliyense kubweretsa mitundu yowala mu moyo wake, moyo wake wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza kulimba mtima ndi chikhumbo chokulitsa khalidwe ili mwa inu nokha.