Kupanga banja latsopano, msungwana aliyense amaganizira momwe angakhalire maubwenzi ndi amayi a wosankhidwa wake. Mkazi uyu nthawi zonse adzakhudza moyo wa mwana wake, ndipo, motero, akufunikira kukhazikitsa kukhudzana. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunika kudziwa momwe mungakhalire ndi amayi anu-apongozi anu ndi amayi anu -la - lamulo , kuti pasakhale mikangano ndipo chirichonse chinali chabwino. Pakati pa anthu pali kusiyana komwe amai ndi mkazi wa mwamuna sangathe kukhala mwamtendere, komabe, podziwa njira zina, kukhudzana kungakhazikitsidwe.
Momwe mungakhalire ndi apongozi anu - malangizo a maganizo
Pofufuza nkhaniyi, akatswiri amagawaniza apongozi onse kuti akhale osiyana, omwe ali ndi makhalidwe omwe ali nawo komanso zochita zawo. Pogwiritsa ntchito wachibale wanu watsopano ku gulu limodzi, mungapeze malangizo momwe mungapitirire.
- Nambala yoyamba 1 - apongozi ake "Othandiza". Ngati mwamuna wa mwamunayo ndi wa gululi, ndiye kuti amakonda kukweza mphuno zake pazochitika zonse kuti adziwe momwe angachitire molondola pa izi kapena izi. Ndikofunika kusonyeza ndikuwonetsa mwachidwi apa kuti mutha kuchita zonse komanso zoipa kwambiri, ndipo mwinamwake ndibwino.
- Chosankha nambala 2 - apongozi a "Wopikisana". Mkazi wotereyo amakonda kufotokoza zolakwa za mpongozi wake, kusonyeza kuti sali woyenera mwana wake. Nthawi zina khalidwe ili ndilofanana ndi masewera oipa. Momwe mungakhalire ndi apongozi anga? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza mwakachetechete ndi mawu onse a wachibale, kuzindikira zolephera. Momwemo, mpongozi wake adzanyalanyaza amayi ake aamuna kukhala okondwa kulandira mphamvu, ndipo amasiya masewera ake.
- Nambala 3 - apongozi ake "okondweretsa". Mkazi wotereyu akuuza zoipa za mpongozi wake, koma amamwetulira pamaso pake, akumuuza momwe mwana wake wamwamuna analiri wamtengo wapatali. Zikatero, m'pofunika kuchepetsa kulankhulana ndi apongozi ake osachepera, ndikulankhulani mochuluka momwe mungathere
mwaulemu, kuganizira mawu onse. - Nambala 4 - mwiniwake "mwini". Mayi woteroyo amafuna kuti nthawi zonse aziona mwana wake wokondedwa pafupi, amene amuthandize kuthana ndi mavuto onse. Kawirikawiri akazi ngati amenewa amachititsa thanzi lawo. Tidzakambirana momwe tingachitire bwino ndi apongozi anga. Mkhalidwe uwu, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kugwirizanitsa motsutsana ndi mdaniyo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti amayi azikonda chinachake, mwachitsanzo, mupeze chizoloŵezi chake.
Za momwe mungakhalire ndi apongozi anu zidzatheka kumvetsetsa mutatha kudziwana kwanu koyamba. Zindikirani mfundozo ndikuyang'ana kuonekera kwa nkhope poyamba. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale nokha ndipo ngati mwanayo akusangalala pafupi ndi mtsikanayo, mayiyo asakhale ndi zotsutsa.