Ngati akatswiri a maganizo a dziko lonse adasankha kulemba mndandanda wamakhalidwe a munthu omwe amaphatikizapo bwino, ndithudi oyambirira pa mndandandawo adzakhala "kudzidalira"! Psycholoji ya kudzipangira kudzikuza kumaphatikizapo ntchito yodzipangira nokha ndi ntchito yambiri, konzekerani izi. Tiyeni titenge mfundo iyi pamalopo ndikuganizira njira ndi njira zowonjezera kudzidalira kwa amayi:
- Choyamba, musanachoke panyumba, yesetsani kuyang'ana zoposa 100%! Izi zidzakupatsani mpikisano waukulu kuti mufike kumapiri atsopano.
- Kawirikawiri anthu omwe amadziona kuti ndi odzidalira amadzikuza okha ndipo amafuna kutsutsa ena mwamseri. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse amamva kuti zolakwitsa zazing'ono ndi maonekedwe awo zimawoneka kwa ena, ngati m'manja mwanu. Koma izi siziri choncho! Ambiri omwe mumacheza nawo samasamala kaya muli ndi mphuno m'mphuno mwanu kapena kuti msinkhu wanu ndi wotani!
- Lero yambani kuphunzitsidwa ndi galimoto! Bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo chotchuka ndi chochita chotere: "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri. Anthu onse ndi openga za ine ... "?! Kumbukirani? Pano muli ndi zitsimikizo zabwino zowonjezera kudzidalira! Yankhulani bwino nokha! Inu munaganiza kuti muzidzikonda nokha ndi kukhala opambana, ndipo osati kudzipha pang'onopang'ono nokha, mwachangu?
Dzikondeni nokha!
Mukhoza ndipo musagwiritse ntchito njira izi kuti muwonjezere kudzidalira, koma zomwe mukuwerengazo ndizofunikira kwa inu! Njira zonse zowonjezera kudzidalira zimadalira kuti munthu amene akufuna kuthandizidwa kuti akhale wodalirika amadziwa kuti iyeyo amatha kudzithandiza yekha. Mpaka mutamvetsa izi, ndipo palibe mabuku owonjezera kudzidalira sangakuthandizeni!
Ndikukukondani izi basi!
Mumakonda kwambiri okondedwa anu! Iwo akufuna ndipo amakukhumba inu moona mtima kuti: mkhalidwe wanu wa maganizo uli mu mtendere ndi bata; kuti ukhale wogwirizana ndi wekha; kuti udzikonda nokha monga momwe amakukondera; ndipo potsiriza, kuti mwasiya kudya ndi kuwononga mkati! Inu nokha mumafuna izo ... koma, mwatsoka, simukuziwona nokha kuchokera kunja ndipo simungadzidziyese nokha! .. Ngati mukanadziwa momwe mungachitire izi, simungayambe kudzidalira nokha.
Ndiwe wapadera!
Mwinamwake muli ndi malingaliro anu, pali ungwiro umene mukuyesetsa nthawi zonse, ndipo pamene mukulakwitsa, mukuchita mantha ndikuyamba kudzudzula nokha! Ndimabwereza, ndiwe wapadera! Osakhalanso kuyerekezera zovala zako! ... Khalani otsiriza nokha ... muwonekedwe zamaliseche, zoyera ... zopambana ...
Kodi mukufuna kukhala bwino ?! - chonde!
Palibe amene amakulepheretsani kudzigwira nokha! Kugwira ntchito sikuti udzidandaule nokha ndi malingaliro, koma kuti uchite zinthu zakuthupi! Mwakhumudwitsidwa kale kuti chinachake sichinagwire ntchito monga momwe munafunira ndi kukonzekera. Ndiye bwanji mukudzipangitsa nokha kudzipangira nokha, pambali? Mphamvu, mphamvu ndi chikhumbo mwa ichi simukuchulukitsa, koma mosiyana. Khalani othokoza chifukwa chokhala okonzeka kwambiri komanso ozindikira kuti muzindikire ndikumvetsa zolakwa zanu! Ndipo izi ndi zambiri, ndipo ngakhale, kwambiri, ndizochepa, theka la nkhaniyo!
Ena ngakhale sangathe ngakhale ... Akudziwa, akuyesera kufotokozera chinachake komanso mwanjira ina, koma ali otsika ndi nyanga komanso ochuluka kuposa otsimikiza za ufulu wawo, ndi chiyani? Momwe mungapitirire kukhala? Iwo samachoka ku imfa mpaka iwo adzizindikira okha
Amaphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa
Ngati patapita mphindi pang'ono mukukhumudwitsidwa ndikusiya chikhulupiriro chanu, tsopano musadzikhulupirire nokha ndipo mudzipatse nokha wopusa, kuganiza ... Kodi ndinu opusa bwanji pamene mwatha kuzindikira izi ndikupeza choonadi? Pa njira zambiri zam'mbali komanso njira zomwe mwasankha bwino ndipo tsopano mutasintha bwino, yesetsani kwambiri. Ayi, musanene izi, koma kudzudzula ndibwino kwambiri! Anthu okha omwe ali ndi khalidwe la khalidweli amatha kudzikonza okha!
Pumula, sangalalani, kondwerani nokha, pulumutsani nokha panthawi yovuta ndi patsogolo! Kokha ndi chisangalalo chabwino ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha mungathe kukwaniritsa zambiri ndikusintha moyo wanu kuti mukhale wabwino !