Wit ndi njira yabwino yothetsera mavuto osavuta. Munthu wamakono amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro kuthetsa mavuto. Komabe, pali mavuto ambiri masiku ano. Aliyense amene amakumana ndi njira yanu akuyesera kukupangirani vuto lomwe muyenera kukonza. Kuntchito, mutu umayika ntchito, boma - ena, banja - zotsatirazi. Kulembanso musamangoganizira kuti mutumikire, antchito, sukulu, achibale, anzanu, oyandikana nawo, anzanu. Aliyense akukulemetsani ntchito zina. Kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro kuthetsa mavuto onsewa ndichabechabe, chifukwa potsiriza iwe umangozimira mwa iwo. Wit ndi mphamvu yakuzimitsa mawonedwe olakwika, mothandizidwa ndi mawu amphamvu. Ndicho chifukwa cha vutoli muyenera kudziwa zinsinsi zobisika za wit.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji?
Pali anthu omwe apatsidwa ndi iye kuyambira kubadwa. Komano inu mumapempha, momwe mungakhalire wochuluka, ngati sikuti mwabadwa? Pali njira zambiri zomwe zingakuthandizeni pa chitukuko cha ufiti:
- kuti mukwaniritse ntchito yomwe mukufuna kuti muwonjezeko, kuti muwerenge mabuku ambiri, kuti muphunzire kuchokera kwa ovomerezeka odziwika bwino, olembapo, olemba.
- Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri muzithunzizi ndizodabwitsa komanso zimangokhalapo mwamsanga. Chifukwa cha ichi mutha kuchitapo kanthu nthawi yomweyo mafunso ndi zochita zovuta za oyankhulana. Musaope kuyang'ana zopusa, tk. panthawi yomwe iwe umatha luso lako, ndipo izi sizongophunzitsa chabe. Chinthu chofunikira ndi chakuti iwe uyenera kudzitonza ndi kudzidalira nokha, chifukwa anthu amakopeka kwambiri kwa munthu yemwe saopa kuseka yekha ndikumvetsera kuleka kwake kwa ena ndi chisangalalo.
- Palibe chomwe chingathandize munthu kuwonjezera chidaliro chake mwa iyemwini, momwe angaphunzirire wit. Zimatipatsa chidaliro mu luso lathu komanso luso lathu. Yerekezerani ngakhale zomwe zimawoneka poyamba mukuziyerekezera, chifukwa, monga lamulo, zikhale zonyansa kwambiri. Nthawi zonse muzigwiritsa ntchito mawu osadziwika ndi mayanjano.
- Onetsani zogwiritsa ntchito komanso olankhula bwino. Musamangoganizira zozizwitsa zokhazokha, chifukwa amatsenga odziwa bwino amakhulupirira kuti nthabwala zonyansa zimakonzedwa bwino. Pitirizani kulimbikitsa chida chanu cha nthabwala, kuti musakhumudwitse oyankhulana nawo.
Komanso, phunzirani chiphunzitso cha mtundu wa zovomerezeka za ulaliki, pambuyo pake zonse sizidzavulaza kwambiri, koma mosiyana zidzakuthandizira kulimbitsa luso limeneli. Pambuyo pa zonse, witero, palibe china choposa mphamvu, komanso kuthekera. Apo ayi, pakapita zaka izo zidzatha, kapena zitatha. Kenaka, timakumbukira mwachidule zigawo zazikuluzikulu.
- Njira yowonjezereka ndiyo kutsutsa zabodza. Mapeto ake amatsutsana ndi chiyambi cha nthabwala.
- Zopindulitsa zabodza ndi pamene mapeto a mbali imodzi amatsimikizira nthabwala, koma pambali ina, ndikutsutsa.
- Wopanda nzeru - chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kubweretsa vutoli, momwe akumvetsera, kumvetsetsa kuti akunena kuti alibe nzeru.
- Ndipo potsiriza, phwando ndilo kusakaniza kwa mafashoni. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito makamaka ndi olemba akatswiri komanso odziwa ntchito.
Mndandanda wa pamwambawu, ndithudi, suli wathunthu, umene uli ndi "wit" weniweni, koma uli ndi matanthauzo okwanira kupereka mphatso zambiri zauzimu za munthu. Pogwiritsira ntchito zinsinsi zoterezi, njira yabwino yotsatiridwa ndi kuseka ndikutsimikiziridwa. Ngati zoterezi sizingayambidwe ndi mbali ya interlocutor, koma palibe zifukwa zothetsera malingaliro abwino, ndiye kuseka kwawo pambaliyi kudzakhala kuwonetsa kwagonjetsa.
Khalani wochenjera, chifukwa uwu ndi mwayi woti nthawizonse umveke.