Kudzudzula

Kusamvetsetsa - mbali, poyang'ana, yosavulaza komanso yoipa. Koma amatha kubweretsa kwa mwiniwake zovuta zambiri ndikusowa mwayi wokonzekera moyo wake. Anthu osamvetsetseka amakhala pamene ataya mphamvu zawo zamkati kuti apeze njira yawo ya moyo ndipo mosalekeza amasuntha njira iyi kupita ku cholinga. Iwo amalephera kugwirizana ndi zolinga zawo zamkati ndi zofuna zawo ndipo sangathe kudzipereka okha kuti akwaniritse ntchito inayake. Anthu otere amadalira malingaliro ndi zikhumbo za anthu ena. Iwo ali ofooka ndipo sangathe kukhazikitsa zolinga zokhumba, monga mwazidzidzidzi alephera kulephera.

Zimayambitsa chisankho

Kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungagonjetsere kusayeruzika, m'pofunika kudziwa zomwe zimayambitsa. Kawirikawiri, chifukwa cha izi ndizokhumudwitsa. Zolakwa zakale ndi zolakwika zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wosatetezeka. Kulephera kwapadera kumapha kudzidalira, kumatanthauza kuti ali wotayika ndipo sayenera kuyesa chiwonongeko chake kachiwiri, iye amangokhalabe wopanda ntchito.

Nthawi zina, kusaganizira kumachokera muubwana. Ngati munthu anakulira m'banja limene aliyense anaganiza zonse, amayendetsa zochita zonse ndipo anasiya mawonetseredwe ake - akhoza kukhala munthu wofooka, wosadzikweza.

Kodi mungachotse bwanji chisankho?

1. Ngati mumalankhulidwe kawiri kawirikawiri mawu akuti "zotheka", "kukaikira", "osatsimikizika" ndi zina zotero - ili ndi nthawi yosonyeza. Zoonadi, mawu awa ndi ofala kwambiri, koma muwerenge kangati patsiku kuti muwatchule. Ngati kawirikawiri - chitani nthawi yomweyo. Lankhulani molimba, molimba mtima, kupewa kupewa kulingalira, kumatanthauza kuti simukudzidalira nokha.
2. Lembetsani nthawi yopanga zisankho. Ngati zinthu zikuchitika zomwe zimafuna kuti musankhe, musazengereze kwa nthawi yayitali, yesetsani kufufuza zomwe mwakumana nazo ndikufotokozerani ndondomeko yothetsera mavuto. Kusinkhasinkha kwa nthawi yaitali sikutitsimikizira zotsatira zabwino. Kawirikawiri, njira yoyamba ndi yotsimikizirika, chifukwa imayambitsidwa bwino.
3. Ngati muli ndi chisankho chofunika: amene ali ndi mkwati wosankha, kuvomereza ku malo atsopano kapena ayi, lembani pa pepala zonse zosungira kapena ubwino wa izi kapena izi. Yerekezerani zotsutsana zosiyanasiyana ndipo muzitha kumvetsetsa. Ndithudi, mutatha kuyesa zonse zabwino ndi zamwano, mukhoza kupanga chisankho choyenera.
4. Limbani mtima. Ndilimbikitso zomwe zimathandiza kuti munthu akhale ndi chidaliro komanso wofunitsitsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuwopa kuyankhula pagulu - pang'onopang'ono pa mantha anu, kambiranani koyamba popanda owonerera, ndiye pamaso pa achibale anu, ndiye funsani anzanu kuti amvetsere mawu anu ndipo zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muyankhule kwa omvera ambiri. Musati mubweretse kuntchito yopanda nzeru - Kudumpha kuchokera padenga la nyumba sikungathandize kuthetsa mantha.

Ngati malangiziwa sakuthandizani - mwina chifukwa cha chisankho chanu chiri pansi pa chidziwitso chachikulu ndipo chingachotsedwe ndi katswiri. Kutembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo wodziwa zambiri, mudzaphunzira momwe mungagwirire ndi chisankho chanu ndi kukhala munthu wodzikweza ndi wopindulitsa. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti zolakwitsa ndi zolephera zimapezeka m'njira ya aliyense. Anthu onse otchuka ndi otchuka adadutsamo, koma sanasiye, koma anangowonjezereka. Ndipo pamene chisankho cha khalidweli chiyesanso kuyeserera chitukuko chako, chichotseni. Gwiritsani ntchito mpata uliwonse woperekedwa ndi tsogolo ndipo onetsetsani kuti mudzapambana!