Inu mwakhala ndi zinthu zoterezi: milandu pamwamba pa denga, ndipo mukuoneka kuti ndinu okonzeka kuthana nawo, muli ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu, koma pazifukwa zina, m'malo momatsegula zolembazo, dinani pazithunzi "Kindergartens" kapena mukhale ndi nthawi yowerengera malo ochezera a pa Intaneti? Ndiye mumadziŵa zochitika zowonongeka ndipo mukudziwa momwe zimakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu. Koma momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kudziletsa, ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti muthe kuchotsa chilakolako chimenechi chokhalitsa nthawi yanu pa makalasi opanda kanthu? Njira yophweka ndiyo kudzikongoletsa nokha ndikuyamba kugwira ntchito, koma sizigwira ntchito kwa aliyense, kotero tiyeni tiwone njira zina zomwe zingathetseretu kubwezeretsa.
Zifukwa zochepetsera
Akafunsidwa chifukwa chake zochitikazi zikuchitika, palibe yankho lolondola, pali mfundo zinayi zokha, zomwe palibe zomwe zimavomerezedwa konsekonse kapena zonse.
- Nkhawa za m'tsogolo, nkhawa, chilakolako cha kukhala wangwiro.
- Kudziletsa chifukwa choopa kukhala wopambana kuposa ena, kudzichepetsa.
- Mzimu wotsutsa, womwe umatikakamiza kuti tipewe maudindo omwe takhala nawo.
- Lingaliro la zolimbikitsa zazing'ono limasonyeza kuti munthu amawona milandu yothandiza kwambiri yomwe imalonjeza mphotho yambiri mu nthawi yocheperapo, ntchito zina zonse zimaonedwa ngati zosasunthika, choncho zimachoka mu bokosi lalitali.
Kodi mungatani kuti muthetse vutoli?
Monga tafotokozera kale, kukanira ndi kubwezeretsa ntchito zosasangalatsa ndi malingaliro. Mndandanda wa milandu yotereyi ingakhale yosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo ngati simutangoyamba kumenyana ndi kuyengerera, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi woikidwa pansi pa phiri la ntchito yofulumira. Choncho, nkofunika kutenga chinthu chimodzi chosasangalatsa, ndiko, kuti uzigwira ntchito pawekha. Choncho, mungagonjetse bwanji kudziletsa? Nawa njira zothandiza.
- Dziphunzitseni nokha kuti muchite chinthu chimodzi chosautsa m'mawa. Ichi chidzakhala chiyambi chochepetsera mndandanda wa milandu yanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kutsimikiziranso kuchita izo, mudzawona, ntchito yonse idzapita mosavuta.
- Kodi mungatani kuti muthetse vutoli? Muyenera kugwira ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwina mumakhala kovuta kuchita ntchito kangapo pa sabata, ndiye muyenera kuyesera tsiku ndi tsiku.
- Fufuzani mnzanu ntchito yosautsa. Sayansi yatsimikiziridwa kuti kwa ambiri, kugwira ntchito ndi winawake kwa kampani kukuwoneka kokongola kuposa ntchito iliyonse.
- Kugonjetsa kukangoyamba kungayambike ndi kukonzekera vuto lololedwa, mwachitsanzo, kusonkhanitsa mfundo za kukonzekera lipoti. Simukufunikira kuchita lero, koma n'zotheka kuti pokonzekera chidziwitso, mumaganiza kuti ndi bwino kuchotsa ntchito yosasangalatsa mwamsanga, popeza zonse zakonzedwa.
- Lembani mndandanda wa milandu yomwe muyenera kumaliza kumapeto kwa tsiku lotsatira.
- Onetsetsani kuti mumakanikizika ndi vuto laling'ono, bwino kumangokhalira kuthana ndi chinthu chosafunikira nthawi yomweyo, poganizira mozama, mukhoza kumvetsera zinthu zing'onozing'ono.
- Thandizo lothandiza polimbana ndi kukakamiza kudzakhala kukwanitsa kusangalala ndi ntchitoyo. Dzitamandeni nokha pa chigonjetso chirichonse, inu mukhoza kudzigonjetsa nokha, inu mwatha.
Musaiwale kuti kusungunuka ndizochitika nthawi zonse ngati sikulepheretsani kugwira ntchito ndi kukhala moyo wabwino.