Posakhalitsa, pamaso pa mkazi aliyense wachibadwa, funso likubwera - momwe mungakwatire bwino? Ndipo mu lingaliro la "banja labwino" mtsikana aliyense amadzipereka tanthauzo lake: kwa ena, uyu ndi wolemera mkwati, kwa ena - owona mtima ndi olingalira, chifukwa chachitatu - wogwira ntchito mwakhama ndi azachuma, kwa wachinayi - wanzeru ndi waluso, kwa wina - wachilendo. Inde, palibe ndipo sizingakhale njira imodzi kwa onse, koma pali mfundo zina zomwe zimathandiza kuzindikira mkwati ndi kumubweretsa ku ofesi yolembera.
"Ndikufuna kukwatirana bwinobwino!"
Mabungwe "momwe mungakwatire mokwanira" mudzaze intaneti ndi masamba a magazini osiyanasiyana. Kawirikawiri izi ndi zokhazokha. Ndipo chowonadi ndi chovuta kwambiri, chifukwa chokwera chofunikira kwa wokondedwa, ndikovuta kwambiri kuti mupeze. Palibe amuna abwino. Pali mitundu iwiri yokha ya amuna omwe maukwati awo sali ovomerezeka kwambiri - ziwalo zoledzera komanso zidakwa. Zonse - kwa wokonda. Koma ngati mwatsimikizika nokha: Ndikufuna kukwatira bwino, ngati mwatsimikiza kale kuti ndi munthu wanji amene mukufunikira, yesetsani mofulumira komanso mwachindunji, osasunthika kulephera ndipo musayime pakati.
Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndicho kudziwa malo omwe zinyama zakutchire zikugwirizanitsa zomwe mukufuna. Kumbukirani Lyudmila kuchokera ku kanema "Moscow sakukhulupirira misozi," yomwe idali kufunafuna gawo mu laibulale. Ngakhale kuti khalidweli ndi losavuta, koma anasankha njira yopezera mkwati. N'zosatheka kuti munthu wamalonda wolemera adzawonetsere m'chipinda chodyeramo mtengo wotsika, ndipo munthu wanzeru wamanyazi - mumabwalo okongola a usiku. Ngakhale tsopano, mwinamwake, ndibwino kuti musapite ku laibulale, koma mutengere galimoto, kumene mungapemphe munthu wamng'ono yemwe amagula "Bugatti": "Kodi mungandiuze momwe wogulitsa amasiyanasiyana ndi injection?" ... Komanso kubweretsa tsiku la ukwati wanu bwino Ndikoyenera kunyalanyaza njira yakale ndi yokoma yodziwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi anzanu ndi achibale.
M'nthaŵi yathu ino, funso la "momwe mungakwatire bwino" likuthetsedwera mothandizidwa ndi intaneti. Malo okondana omwe adasudzulana ndi imeryano. Ambiri amapereka ochokera kunja. Koma, pogwiritsira ntchito intaneti, sizomwe zimadziwika kuti: chithunzi sichigwirizana ndi mawonekedwe enieni a bwana, mafuta oligarch angakhale osakakamizidwa, ndipo wachikondi wa ku Canada ndi wokhala pakhomo. Ndipo chifukwa chaukwati umene ukuwombetsa Intaneti ndi pansi! Choncho musamafulumire kutenga zofuna zanu ndikuyembekezera ukwati wabwino, kufikira mutakumanana ndi munthu ndipo musakhale ndi 100% okhulupirira kuti iye ndi amene amamuyesa. Ndipo ngati "Millionaire" akukupempha kubwereka $ 300 kugula hotelo ku Miami, ithamangitse mu makosi atatu.
Kwa mnzanuyo muyese kuyembekezera kuti mulibe chikhalidwe chochuluka cha njonda, ndi zingati zomwe zingatheke. Ndizotheka kuti mutha kukwatiwa ndi wophunzira wosauka, yemwe muzaka zingapo adzakhala mtsogoleri wa banki, ndipo sagonjetsedwe - chifukwa wothandizira ndalama amene amachotsa cholowa cha Papa. Akuluakulu nthawi zambiri amakhala omwe anakwatira mlembi.
Momwe mungakokerere chidwi cha njonda? Ziribe kanthu momwe anthu amanenera kuti chinthu chachikulu mwa munthu ndi moyo, amunawo akukonzedwa m'njira yoyamba kuti ayang'ane mawonekedwe. Mkazi wokongoletsedwa bwino, wokongola ndi wokongola kwambiri amatha kupota, kuvala mosasamala, ngakhale zovala zodula.
Kawirikawiri, akazi amafunsira kwa okhulupirira nyenyezi amene amalimbikitsa chaka chabwino komanso tsiku lokwatirana. Komabe, kukhulupirira nyenyezi ndi njira yovuta kwambiri yothetsera vuto la "momwe mungakwatire bwino". Zogwira mtima kwambiri - chithumwa, chikhalidwe chanu komanso luso lolankhulana. Ichi ndi chitsimikizo kuti mudzatha kukwatira bwino ndikusunga ukwati wanu.