Psychology ya manja ndi nkhope ya nkhope

Monga mukudziwa, ndi 20 peresenti ya zomwe timalankhula (mawu), otsala 80% - kuchokera kumalo osalankhulidwa, pambali pa zokambirana, makhalidwe komanso zovala ndi zokongoletsera. Zonsezi zatipatsa ife chithunzi chodalirika cha zenizeni. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, munthu akamatipatsa chikondi, koma ndi manja ake adadutsa, ndiye kuti amachoka kwa ife ndipo akuti: "Sindimasuka, sindimasuka." Kudziwa, nkhope ndi manja zimatipatsa zizindikiro pamtundu wosadziwika bwino, ndizoona moona kwambiri kuposa mawu opangidwa ndi ubongo.

Psychology - kodi manja amatanthauzanji?

"Ndinaganiza za izo"

Sintha chizindikiro ichi chosavuta. Munthu yemwe ali mu lingaliro lake, kawirikawiri alibepo pa moyo weniweni. Choncho, akhoza kugwira dzanja lake pafupi ndi kachisi wake, kukhudza mutu wake, kumeta mutu, kudalira mkono wake. Panthawi ino, amagwira ntchito, ndipo amayesera kukupatsani chizindikiro.

"Ndine wokondweretsedwa"

Munthu amene mumamufunira amayesera kuchita zochepa pazokambirana. Mwachitsanzo, monga phunziro lochititsa chidwi, pamene ana a alangizi a chidwi akufa chete mwa omvera. Wothandizana nawo amakukondani, ndikuyesera kuti musaphonye mawu amodzi, samakupusitsani ndipo amamvetsera mwachidwi, kukhudzana maso kumakhala komwe kulipo. Omvera samatsatira nkhope yake, choncho maso ake kapena pakamwa pake amatha kutsegulidwa.

"Ndikulemekeza iwe"

Psychology ya manja a anthu. Munthu amene amakulemekezani, amakupatsani mmanja mwamphamvu, ngati n'kotheka, kwa nthawi yayitali, ndi dzanja lanu molunjika komanso motalika. Izi zimakupangitsani inu zinthu zabwino kwambiri kuti mugwirizane naye. Mwamuna amapereka mkazi dzanja pamene akuchoka pagalimoto. Chizindikiro ichi chimadzitengera palokha osati khalidwe lokhazikika, pamene munthu akuyang'ana ndikuyesa kukopera pensulo yako.

"Ndimakhala ndi chibwenzi chodalirika"

Psychology ya manja ndi nkhope ya munthu imasonyeza kuti chizindikiro choyamba cha ubwenzi wapamtima, wodalirika ndi mtunda wochepa kwambiri, pakati pa inu ndi interlocutor wanu. Kuchokera pamtunda, mukhoza kuweruza momwe mumadalira, ndikukulolani kuti muyambe malo anu enieni ndikulowa malo otonthoza . Malingaliro oterewa akudandaulabe: osati mikono yolowa manja kapena manja ndi miyendo kapena mphutsi; Masalimo otseguka amayendetsedwa kupita kumwamba; kutseguka kwa munthu, kuwona mtima, kumwetulira, kuseka kwakukulu ndi kosalekeza; kulimba mtima kuti akukhudze inu pamsonkhano woyamba, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - munthu yemwe mumamumvera chisoni, mumasungira mwakufuna kwanu, manja anu ndi zizolowezi zanu.

"Ndikudziletsa ndekha"

Pali mitundu yambiri ya manja ndi maimidwe, psycholo yomwe imalimbikitsa chitetezo, mwa amuna, kuchoka kumalo oponderezedwa pa nthawi, kuyimilira mikono ndi kumanga khoma pakati pa inu (poyikira mwadala munthu wachitatu). Njira zitha kukhala mitundu yonse: pogwiritsa ntchito mpango, kuchita zokopa ndi mphuno ndi makutu, kubisala makutu pansi pa chipewa kapena tsitsi, manja m'thumba, osamala kuti asakhudze interlocutor, kutseka maso ndi dzanja lanu, nthawi zonse kuvala magalasi.

Psychology ya manja a akazi ndi chinthu chodabwitsa! Podziwa bwino, mtsikanayo angakhale kosavuta kumudziwitsa munthuyo kuti ali pafupi kwambiri.

Manja achikazi ndi kufunika kwake m'maganizo

• Sewani munthu wosokonezeka, mwamunayo amvetse kuti mukufuna kuchikwaniritsa;
• kugwedeza tsitsi - muyenera kusamala;
• kuponyera ndi maso ako - kumalankhula ndi mnzanu;
• Tayani kuyang'ana kuchokera pansi pa mapewa akukwera - mukufuna chiyanjano ndi chikondi;
• mwendo umodzi umaponyedwa pambali pamzake kapena kusintha kwina - mkazi amafuna kugonana ndi wokhumudwitsa kuchokera kwa mwamuna;
• chikwangwani chokongola kwambiri ndi chonyenga - kamvekedwe kamene kanatsegulidwa, kujambulidwa ndi chinkhupule chowala kapena chowotcha milomo (makamaka chipatso chosangalatsa).