"Mmawa wabwino" - ndi momwe timachitira moni anzathu tikamabwera kuntchito, ndipo popanda kudzidziwa tokha timatsatira malamulo a chiyankhulo cholankhulana. Iwo ali osiyana kwambiri ndipo, poyamba, akukotopetsa ndipo amangolepheretsa njira yachizolowezi yokambirana. Koma, popanda zoletsedwa zotero, sikungathe kuyankhulana momveka bwino kwa ophunzira ake onse.
Lingaliro la zamakono zamakono zamalankhula
Kuyankhulana kulikonse kumayendetsedwa molingana ndi malamulo ake, ndipo ndi olimba kwambiri kuti tiwatsatire, mosaganizira popanda zochita. Palibe amene angakumbukire kuti ayambe kukambirana ndi ndondomeko yotsalira? Kugwirizana ndi malamulo a chiyankhulo cholankhulira kumathandizira pa zokambirana zabwino, koma kusanyalanyaza iwo kungakhale chinthu chofunikira kuti pakhale mgwirizano. Mwachitsanzo, kuyitanitsa kwa "iwe" kwa munthu wosadziwika kumaloledwa pa intaneti, pa zokambirana "zokhala ndi moyo" zomwe zingayambitse kusokonezeka, ndipo ngati munthu ali wamkulu msinkhu, ndiye mkwiyo. Kulankhulana kumayendetsa khalidwe pazochitika zosiyanasiyana, ndipo zowonongeka zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito zimapereka chidziwitso pazomwe akudziwirana ndi oyanjana, chikhalidwe chawo, zaka, ndi momwe akulankhulirana. Ngakhale kulimbika, mawu oyankhulira amatsutsana ndi kusintha kwa mbiriyakale, mwachitsanzo, pempho la "madam" lerolino likuwoneka lopanda pake.
Ndizowona kuti malamulowa samakhazikitsidwa pazochita zokhudzana ndi makhalidwe, komanso pa miyambo ndi miyambo ya dziko. Kutanthauza kuti, kudziŵa malamulo a chiyankhulo, tikhoza kudziŵa za chikhalidwe cha dziko kapena dera, ndi oimira zomwe tidzafunikire kulankhulana. Ndikoyenera kulingalira kuti malamulowa si uniform, ndiko kuti, kuwonjezera pa kusiyana kwa dziko, pali kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, mayesero omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana ndi mwana sangakhale oyenera poyankhula ndi munthu wamkulu. Izi kawirikawiri zimapezeka mu aphunzitsi a sukulu komanso aphunzitsi a pulayimale, pokhala atagwiritsa ntchito njira imodzi yolankhulirana, zimakhala zovuta kuti adzipangenso okha, kotero zimawoneka kuti ena amawachitira ngati ana. Muzinthu zoterezi, kuphweka kwa lingaliro la "malankhulidwe", kaya mukukonzekera kukambirana ndi mabwenzi amalonda kapena kusonkhana pamodzi kuti musonkhane misonkhano, pitani kupeza pasipoti kapena kupita ku salon - mtundu uliwonse wa kuyankhulana kwanu kumvera malamulo anu.
Zizindikiro za zizindikiro zamakono zamakono
Monga tanenera kale, malamulo omwe kulankhulirana ndi nkhani ndi okonzeka kuti tigwiritse ntchito mosadziwa. Kuti mumvetse bwino zochitika izi, ndi bwino kudziwa za zikuluzikulu zake.
- Kufunika kutsatila malamulo oyankhulana omwe anakhazikitsidwa ndi anthu.
- Kugwiritsira ntchito zoyankhula pofotokozera malingaliro ndi maganizo. Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungasankhe kuchita, zina mwazo zimatha kuphatikiza ntchito zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ndi mawu oti "zikomo" tikhoza kuyamika, pamene tikupepesa, ndipo nthawi zina amagwiritsiridwa ntchito kufotokoza zolakwika.
- Kusagwirizana ndi anthu "-" Ndimomwe wothandizira amavomereza kuti amatsatira malamulo oyenera. Kutembenukira kwa woyimilira "mu mawonekedwe" (mwaulemu kwa bwana, moni wachimwemwe kwa bwenzi), ife tawukhazikitsa
kukhala wokoma mtima, zomwe zimapatsa mpata wokambirana bwino. - Chiwonetsero chodziwika kapena chobisika cha maphwando olankhulana: "Zikomo kwambiri" kapena "Pepani, sindidzachitanso".
- Kugwirizana pakati pa malamulo a chiyankhulo ndi kulemekeza ndi chikhalidwe cha makhalidwe omwe ndi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri la munthu.
Makhalidwe abwino amalankhula njira zothandizira anthu komanso njira zothandizira, komanso khalidwe la zokambirana. Choncho, pakufunika kuyang'ana kuti mutu wa zokambirana unali wokondweretsa kwa onse omwe adakambirana nawo, kusunga chidwi cha omvera ndikupewa kupewa. Ndipotu, pali malamulo ena ambiri, koma kutsatira malamulo amenewa n'kofunika kwambiri kuti mukambirane bwino.