Chomwecho chimabisa maganizo a ukalamba? Chaka chilichonse, munthu amavumbula osati kusintha kokha kwa thupi, komanso kusintha kwa maganizo. Ambiri okalamba amakhala ochepa, ochepa, ochepa. Ngakhale, monga asayansi amaganizira, ukalamba wa munthu aliyense umayenda m'njira zosiyanasiyana.
Psychology ya ukalamba ndi ukalamba
Kukalamba m'maganizo ndi njira yowonongeka ya chikhalidwe chake. Zikuwonekera kuchokera pamene nthawi yamoyo imasiya kukula. N'zosatheka kuletsa chodabwitsa ichi, koma palibe amene amaletsa kuti zichepetse.
Zimakhulupirira kuti nthawi yochepa ikafika munthu atatha zaka 75. Zindikirani kuti amasiyanitsa:
- Kukalamba msanga kumayambitsa matenda, zowononga zachilengedwe, zizolowezi zoipa zomwe zimasiya thupi la munthu;
- zamoyo zimakhala ndi kusintha kofulumira kumene, mpaka ukalamba kwambiri, umunthu umakhalabe wochenjera wa malingaliro ndi chidwi chachikulu pa zochitika zowoneka;
- ukalamba wamba, chizindikiro chodziwikiratu chomwe chimachepetsanso kayendedwe kamene kamayambitsa matenda , kusinthika kukumbukira, kuchepetsa kupweteka kwa mtima, ndi zina zotero.
Ngati tilankhula za zotsatira zovuta za ukalamba, ndiye kuti pazithunzithunzi za chitukuko zimatchulidwa:
- Kusintha kwaumunthu . Pali mavuto pakuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, kusintha kwa zochitika.
- Zamtima . Zimatha kukhala mantha kwambiri, kukhumudwitsa, chisoni. Zimayambira makamaka ndi zochitika zowoneka (mwachitsanzo, kuyang'ana kanema yomwe mumaikonda).
- Kusintha kwa khalidwe . Sizosatheka kusintha moyo wokhutiritsa.
Ngakhale kupezeka kwa okalamba sikutanthauza kuti sipadzakhalanso kuwala m'moyo. Anthu ambiri amadzipereka okha ku "kufa", kudzipatulira okha kudziko lakunja komanso kuvutika ndi chikhalidwe chawo.