Ngati mukufunafuna kutchuka ndi chifundo kwa anzanu ndi anzanu akusukulu - onetsetsani kuti mudzapambana! Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti simukusowa kukongola, chithumwa, nzeru kapena mpumulo, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikukhulupirira nokha. Msungwana aliyense akhoza kukhala malo okopa kwambiri ngati atatsatira malamulo osavuta.
Koma musanalankhule za momwe mungatchuka ndi anzanu ndi abwenzi anu kusukulu, yang'anani - zomwe simuyenera kuchita mulimonsemo:
- kuti asangalatse anzanu akusukulu;
- Kuti akhale wamanyazi, woyenera ubwenzi wa wina;
- Tsatirani khalidwe la atsikana otchuka, lembani khalidwe lawo;
- kukomana ndi anyamata kuti angoganiziridwa kukhala ochititsa chidwi ndi oyenerera kusamala.
Ngati anzanu akuwona kuti mukuyendayenda nawo limodzi ndikukwaniritsa mosavuta zokhumba zawo, angakhale akuyankhulana nanu, koma sungakhale ubwenzi weniweni. Mukayamba kupereka ulemu wanu ndi kunyada, simudzapeza kutchuka kwenikweni kusukulu kapena ku kampani, ziribe kanthu momwe mukuyesera.
Ndi momwe mungakhalire msungwana wotchuka kwambiri?
Poyambira - kuyang'anira maonekedwe anu ndi khalidwe lanu. Ngati mtsikanayo akuwoneka bwino, amadzikayikira. Ingodzigulira nokha zinthu zokwera ndi zokongola ndi zodzoladzola - sizo zonse. Nsalu zamtengo wapatali zodzikongoletsera zingakhale zokhumudwitsa kwambiri chifukwa cha kusowa kochepa kapena kuyendetsa bwino, ndipo palibe mankhwala omwe angaphimbe tsitsi loyera ndi mawonekedwe osasangalatsa. Choncho, kugula chovala chotsatira, ndikofunikira kusankha zomwe mukupita. Izi ziyenera kukusiyanitsani ndi gulu, koma panthawi imodzimodzi muyenera kuyang'ana zachirengedwe. Ndipotu, abwenzi anu samawakonda omwe asonyezedwa. Inde, ndipo kukhala chete ndi mabora, nawonso, sikunalemekezedwe kwambiri. Ndipo mumakonda bwanji khalidwe lanu? Mwinamwake nthawi yokha, osanyalanyaza anzanu akusukulu? Kapena kukoka ndi kuwaseka mwankhanza iwo? Kapena mukudandaula ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso miseche?
Kumbukirani kuti n'zotheka kukhala wotchuka ku sukulu komanso pamodzi ndi abwenzi, mtsikana amene sakhala maso nthawi zonse, koma amakondabe. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi ndikofunikira kulankhula bwino, kusonyeza chidwi ndi chisomo, kukhala ndi ulemu. Inde, pakhoza kukhala anthu mukalasi omwe sakhala omasuka chifukwa cha khalidwe loipa kapena laukali, ndipo safuna kukhala mabwenzi nawo konse. Ndipo musatero! Ndi bwino kupeza omwe ali pafupi ndi malingaliro awo ndi khalidwe lawo. Akhoza kuphunzira ku sukulu yomweyi, ndipo akhoza kukhala nawo pa gulu la alendo oyendayenda kapena malo owonetsera masewero, kukhala nawo maulendo a agalu obereketsa kapena oyambitsa gulu la achinyamata. Musayang'ane njira yoti mutchuke muzunguliro imodzi, chifukwa kusukulu mungadziwonetse nokha kuchokera kumbali iliyonse - komanso mu maphunziro, komanso pa moyo wanu, komanso mu chilengedwe.
Momwe mungadzitamandire pakati pa anyamata?
Monga ena onse, anyamata amakhala ngati asungwana okondwa komanso okondana. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukusowa nthawi yonse yocheza nawo popanda kupuma.
Munthu wokondana samangolankhula yekha, amamvetsera mwachidwi. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi momwe anyamata amachita zinthu, kambiranani nkhani zomwe zili pafupi nawo. Mwachidziwikire, simudziwa zambiri zokhudza mpira, magalimoto ndi njinga zamoto, koma sikofunikira. Pambuyo pake, mukhoza kuwafunsa kuti afotokoze mwatsatanetsatane. Kapena werengani nkhani imodzi kapena ziwiri pa intaneti ndikuthandizira zokambirana mwa kufunsa mafunso. Aliyense amasangalala akamamufuna iye kapena zosangalatsa zake.
Ndi momwe mungakhalire wotchuka pakati pa anyamata - mvetserani kwa iwo, aloleni iwo akambirane za iwoeni. Kotero sikoyenera kuti tizengereza kapena, mosiyana, kuti tidzakhale ndi chikhalidwe cholakwika. Kotero inu simungapeze kutchuka, koma mbiri ya msungwana wopusa kwambiri kusukulu, yemwe amakomana mosasankha ndi kumangoganizira yekha, wokondedwa, ndi anyamata.
Khalani achibadwa ndi omasuka. Yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti mukuwoneka kuti ndinu mtsikana wokondweretsa, yemwe ndi bwino kumupatsa nthawi. Kumvetsetsa - nchiyani chabwino kwa inu, choipa, chomwe chili chofunika ndi chomwe sichiri. Musayesetse kukhala ngati munthu, dziwani nokha kuti atsikana onse akufuna kutsanzira!