Tsiku limodzi ndi mnyamata, makamaka loyambirira, ndi losangalatsa kwa mtsikana aliyense, zitatha zonse zimadalira iye momwe zidzakhalira patsogolo. Kotero kodi mumakonzekera bwanji tsiku loyamba ndi mnyamata, momwe mungakhalire pa izo, zomwe mungachite, ndi zomwe musachite? Zomwe zingasokoneze tsiku loyamba, tidzakambirana lero.
Kukonzekera koyamba
Pa msinkhu uliwonse, timayang'anitsitsa zovala, ndipo tsiku loyambirira silimodzimodzi. Chovala chake pamsonkhano uno, kuti mnyamatayo akonde komanso sakuwoneka ngati cheeky kwa iye? Inde, tikufuna kukhala achigololo, koma kugonana sikuli miyendo yotseguka komanso chifuwa. Pa tsiku loyamba, mnyamatayo adzakhala wokonzeka kuganiza mafomu anu pansi pa nsalu yoyera - iye adzalongosola ma bulges, ndipo sadzawonetsa mochuluka. Kawirikawiri, zovala ziyenera kusankhidwa monga momwe zingathere, koma kutsindika ulemu wanu. Koma sikofunika kuti tipewe kutero, ngakhale chifaniziro chokongola kwambiri sichikongoletsera zovala za monastic, kotero sizingakhale zogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri kuchokera ku kudzichepetsa. Ndipo ndithudi, zovala zanu ziyenera kufanana ndi tsiku la msonkhano. Tavomereze, ndi zopanda pake kuti tiwoneke pa picnic, atavala zovala za madzulo komanso pazitsulo zapamwamba.
Pankhani yokonzekera, chinthu chachikulu apa sikuti chikhale choposa. Ndi bwino kusankha chithunzi chopanda kulowerera. Sikoyenera kuchita zovuta-zopanga zosangalatsa kapena kupenta misomali ndi mtundu wa lacquer. Tsopano ntchito yanu siyikugonjetsa mwamunayo ndi kuwala kwake kunja (ngati atakuitanani pa tsiku, ndiye mumamukoka kale), kuchuluka bwanji kuti mumutsimikizire kuti ndi zosangalatsa kuti mukhale ndi inu, kuti mugonjetse njira yanu yolankhulirana.
Mmene mungakhalire mukakumana ndi mnyamata?
Zomwe munganene pa tsiku loyamba, ndi langizo lotani limene lidzakhalapo? Pali malamulo osatsutsika a khalidwe ndipo wina wa iwo - msungwana sayenera kupirira tsiku lina zomwe akukumana nazo ndi mavuto ake, simukudziwana bwino bwino, ndipo kuti mukhale osangalala bwino. Ndipotu, mumasangalala kwambiri kulankhula ndi munthu amene amakumwetulira mwachifundo ndipo sakuyesera kukulemberani mavuto anu.
Kodi mungachite chiyani pa tsiku loyamba? Inde, zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Sizaphwando kukonda chidwi, ndipo maminiti asanu kapena khumi amachitiramo masewera awiriwo. Choncho, yesetsani kulankhulana pa nkhani zomwe inu ndi interlocutor wanu mumakhudzidwa nazo. Ndipo samalani ndi kunyoza kwakukulu kwa gawo lanu, chifukwa tikudziwa zomwe, ndi mphamvu zawo zonse, amuna ali otetezeka. Choncho, timayesetsa kulankhula molimba mtima (mtsikana wokhala ndi mkatikati amachititsa chidwi ndi chilakolako chogonjetsa), koma popanda kunyoza interlocutor. Ndipo inde, kayiwala za vagaries - nthawi zingapo mnyamatayo angakupatseni ngati mukuchita nawo chidwi, koma kugwedeza nthawi zonse sikudzakongoletsa, kapena kuwonjezera chimwemwe.
Kawirikawiri atsikana akudzifunsa ngati kuli koyenera kupsopsona kapena kugona ndi mnyamata pa tsiku loyamba. Inde, ziri kwa inu, ndipo mwinamwake mnyamatayo adzakukondani kwambiri kuti akufuna kuti apitirizebe kuyanjana wapamtima. Koma ndibwino kuti musatero. Ndipo mfundoyi siyiyendetsedwe pamakhalidwe abwino (ngakhale atakhala amphamvu, lingaliro la chiyanjano pa tsiku loyamba silikuchezerani inu), koma mchidziwitso cha mchitidwe wamwamuna. Amuna mwa chilengedwe ali osaka, ogonjetsa. Ndipo ngati akuzindikira kupambana kwathunthu pamsonkhano woyamba, ndiye kuti wotsatira sungatsatire. Bwanji, pambuyo pa maudindo onse ataperekedwa ndi kudzipatulira kwathunthu?
Chofunika kwambiri - kukhala chachirengedwe. Simukuyenera kutsanzira khalidwe kuchokera kwa katswiri wokonda wanu kapena khalidwe lanu kuchokera ku zolemba (mabuku, manga), ndinu osiyana, ndipo ndi zabwino. Kumbukirani momwe munthu wopusa amayang'ana pamene ayesa kuwonekera
Ndani amapereka tsiku loyamba? Apa chirichonse chiri chophweka, malingana ndi malamulo a ulemu, munthu woitanidwa amapereka. Koma ngati chigamulo chopita kulikonse kuli mgwirizano (mawu akuti "Ndikukuitanani" sanamveka), ndiye aliyense ayenera kulipira yekha.
Kumbukirani, zolakwa pa tsiku loyamba pali atsikana ndi anyamata. Ndipo ngati msonkhano usanakhalebe kupitiriza, musadzitsutse nokha, mwinamwake si munthu wanu basi.