Achinyamata a slang adapindula ndi mawu ambiri ochokera kumadzulo. Apa pali lotchuka lotchedwa zone zone, lomasuliridwa m'Chisipanishi monga "mabungwe okondana", okhazikika okha ndipo akugwirizana ndi ubale wa amuna kapena akazi. Kodi Frenchzone ndi chiyani - m'nkhani ino.
Friendzona - ndi chiyani ichi?
Monga zaka zambiri zapitazo, pakalipano pakati pa mtsikana ndi mnyamata apo pakhoza kukhala vuto pamene wina ali mwachinsinsi kapena mwachiwonekere m'chikondi, ndipo winayo akuwona ngati bwenzi basi. Friendzona ndi momwe munthu wokonda amasungira patali, osati kulola kupita, koma osayandikira kwa iye mwini. Msungwanayo amatumiza gawo la okonda anyamata ake omwe sali okondwa naye, koma omalizawo sali ochepa, koma amatha kuchimwa ndikuzunza malingaliro a munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzawo.
Zizindikiro za malaya a jekete
Pali zizindikiro zina ndi zizindikiro za khalidwe la chinthu chomvetsa chisoni, chomwe chidzawonekeratu momveka bwino momwe amadziwira wokondedwa naye. Anthu omwe akufuna kudziwa momwe muliri mu Frenchzone, muyenera kumvetsera zizindikiro zotsatirazi:
- Ndi zikhumbo zanu ndi zikhumbo zanu, palibe amene amawerengera, koma ake omwe amamukonda amakonda chinthu chomwe amachikonda. Mtsikana akhoza kufunsa ayisikilimu pa 2 am, osaganiza kuti mnyamatayo akufuna kuti agone, ndi oimira tchimo lolimba lachiwerewere limene amakonda kuitanira usiku "podshofe" ndi kulira pachiuno.
- Kodi Friendzone ndi chiyani ngati muli mmenemo ndi osavuta kumvetsa mwa njira yomwe chilakolako chanu chimakuwonerani ndi zomwe akunena za izo. Kawirikawiri munthu amamva mawu ngati awa: "Ndiwe bwenzi lapamtima", "Udzatenga wina ndi chibwenzi / chibwenzi", "Ndiwe wokoma, wodabwitsa, wokoma mtima, wachifundo", ndi zina zotero.
- Pomwe mukupita ku "tsiku" - mukafa, filimu, masewera, koma poyesera kuyandikira, amachoka, amachepetsa nthabwala zonse, kutanthauzira mutuwo ndi chiwerengero chomwe amalola - kupsompsona pa tsaya.
Kodi mungasiyanitse bwanji frendzonu ndi chifundo?
Pamene anthu amakondana komanso amakondana wina ndi mzake, ndiko kuti, amamvera chisoni, zimagwirizana. Munthu samagwiritsa ntchito wokondedwa mmenemo chifukwa chadyera ndipo samagwiritsa ntchito molakwa maganizo otere payekha. Maganizo ake ndi zikhumbo zake zimaganiziridwa, chidwi chimasonyezedwa kumbali zonse. Mnzanuyo muyanjano amasiyana ndi chifundo chifukwa chikondi sichisamalira malingaliro a wina ndipo chimatha kumukhumudwitsa, kukambirana ndi anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi, ulemu wawo ndi zolephera zawo. Mtsikana / chibwenzi amadziwa kuti amamukonda, koma amasonyeza kuti alibe chidwi.
Friendzona - kodi ndi zabwino kapena zoipa?
Kuchokera pa chinthu chosonyeza chikondi, izi ndi zabwino, chifukwa nthawi zonse muli ndi mwayi wopeza thandizo laulere, "kwaulere" kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yaufulu m'mabungwe osangalatsa, ndipo osangokhala osungulumwa. Malo ovuta kwambiri amatembenukira kukhala tsoka lenileni kwa wokonda. Munthuyo amavutika, amavutika, koma samayesetsa kuthetsa ubale umenewu, chifukwa nthawi zonse amayembekezera kuti iwo adzakula ndikuwonjezereka. Amamvetsa kuti amagwiritsidwa ntchito, koma palibe chomwe chingatheke.
Mmene mungakhalire mu Frenchzone?
Ndipotu, sizidalira wokonda, chifukwa chiwombankhanga chachikulu pachibwenzicho chimasewera ndi mbali yina. Ngati munthu ali ndi chikondi chenichenicho, amalekerera chirichonse, kupirira, kuimitsa chiwombankhanga ndikudikirira nthawi yomwe mnyamatayo / mtsikana adzayamikira. Kwa iwo omwe akupempha choti muchite ngati muli mu Frenchzone, munganene kuti chirichonse chidzadalira ngati wokondedwa ali wokonzeka kuphunzira choonadi kapena ngati ndi bwino kunyengedwa ngakhale kupitirira. Izi zidzatsimikizira zochita zake.
Bwanji osalowa mu Frenchzone?
Inu simungakhoze kulamulira mtima, ndipo chikondi chimabwera popanda kufunsa, koma pali mtundu wotere wa anyamata ndi atsikana kumene anthu osauka omwe agwera mu Friendzone nthawizonse amapotoka. Monga lamulo, iwo amaoneka okongola, atavala zovala komanso nthawi zonse. Ndiwo moyo wa kampaniyo, iwo amatha kusintha mosavuta ndi anthu, koma nthawi yomweyo amadziwika ndi kudzikuza, kunyada, kulongosola, zopanda pake.
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono munthu amachita zinthu motero chifukwa "watenthedwa" mu moyo ndipo amaopa kubwereza maubwenzi olephera. Kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungalowerere ndi chibwenzi kwa mtsikana, muyenera kumuyang'ana mwachidwi ndikupeza zomwe zinayambitsa kusakondana kuti mupite kukondana. Mwinamwake akuyembekezera mwachiwonetsero momveka bwino ndi zomveka za kumverera kwake, umboni weniweni wa chilakolako ndi chikondi.
Kodi mungachoke bwanji ku makondomu?
Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zowathandiza wokondedwa wanu kuti musakhale chidole ndipo muli ndi ufulu wokonda ndi ubale weniweni. Mulimonsemo, izi ndi zabwino kusiyana ndi kusadziwa komanso kuvutika, kuvutika, kuzindikira kuti mukugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zanu. Njira yochokeramo malo osokoneza sichitha mopanda phokoso, koma imabweretsa mpumulo kwa wokonda, imapatsa mpata womasuka kukhala womasuka ndi ubale watsopano.
Kodi mungatuluke bwanji pa bwenzi la chibwenzi?
Oimira abambo abwino akhoza kuyesa njira zotsatirazi:
- Lekani kuyankha usiku, ndipo ngati mutenga foni, ndiye kuti mungonena kuti simuli nokha ndipo simungathe kuyankhula.
- Funso lofunika kwambiri, momwe mungatuluke mu Frenchzone , mukhoza kulangizidwa kuti muyese kutsanzira zofuna za wokondedwa. Mwaphunzira kale bwino, mukudziwa zomwe zimayembekezeka kwa amayi. Mukhoza kusonyeza luso lanu lakuphimba, chikondi kwa ana, chisamaliro. Pali mwayi wonse kuti mnyamata angakuyang'ane ndi maso osiyana.
- Sinthani maonekedwe anu. Kusintha zovala ndi zovala, kuti mukhale wochepa thupi, ngati muli ndi kulemera kwakukulu.
- Khalani mnyamata wosamvetsetseka, manga, osatheka. Kukhala osiyana nthawi zonse - chinachake chimakhala chokoma ndi chosangalala, nthawi zina chimakhala chosauka komanso cholingalira.
- Pangani ndi kukula. Kwa bamboyo sanakhumudwe ndi inu, muyenera kupeza mitu yatsopano yokambirana. Werengani bukhuli ndikukambirana tanthauzo lake, lembani bwalolo kapena phunzirani. Ayenera kumvetsa kuti amatenga zofunika, koma osati malo oyamba m'moyo wanu. Muyenera kukhala ndi zofuna zanu.
Kodi mungachoke bwanji kumalo okondana kwa mnyamata?
Kuti chiyanjano choyamba chikuchitireni ngati chibwenzi, muyenera kuchita zotsatirazi:
- Khalani munthu weniweni - wokhutira ndi wodzidalira. Musamazunze, musazengereze, musayang'ane mutu wa zokambirana. Onetsani makhalidwe anu abwino, onetsani luso, makamaka ngati mukudziwa kuti mayi wanu amawayamikira.
- Pemphani kuti mutuluke mu friendlyzone ndikuyamba chibwenzi, mungakulangizeni nthawi yomwe mumayang'ana masomphenya ake, kulola chinthu chokhumba kuganizira zomwe mumatanthauza komanso momwe mumataya. Ikhoza kugwira ntchito, ngati kuli Friendzone pambuyo pa kugonana. Tsiku loyamba lachibale limakhala likuphwanyidwa, makamaka ngati mwamunayo ali ndi nkhawa.
- Kunena kuti frendzona ndi momwe mungagwirire nazo, mungayesere kuchita nsanje ndi mtsikanayo. Kuti atsimikizire kuti adakwaniritsa zolinga zawo, ndipo ngati zitero, zisonyezani momveka bwino ubale wosagwirizana.
- Phunzirani kulankhula bwino, chifukwa amayi amakonda ndi makutu awo. Ndipo akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti munthu yemwe amatha kumuseka, mkaziyo apita kumapeto a dziko. Khalani ndi chisangalalo .
- Lankhulani momveka ku chinthu chokhumba ndi kupeza chirichonse. Njira iyi ndi yoyenera kwa anyamata ndi atsikana.
Mafilimu okhudza Frenchzone
Mutu wa chikondi chosagonjetsedwa nthawi zambiri umagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ojambula mafilimu padziko lonse lapansi. Zojambula zotchuka zikuphatikizapo:
- "Wopanda maphunziro" Yuri Chulyukin . Nyuzipepala yodziwika kwambiri ya nthawi ya Soviet Union. Mwini wamkulu adagwiritsa ntchito banki awiri anzake ogulitsira, omwe anali okondweretsa kusangalatsa mtsikana wokongola, ndipo adakonda winayo.
- "Tsiku Limodzi" lolamulidwa ndi Lone Scherfig . Frendzona mu mafilimu operekedwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Pachithunzichi, banjali linakhalabe mabwenzi kwa zaka 23, kenako anakwatira. Ndipo ngakhale kuti kutha kwa filimuyi ndikumvetsa chisoni, amatiphunzitsa kuti tisataye mtima ndikukhulupirira kuti chikondi chidzagonjetsa zopinga zonse ngakhale imfa.
- "Kuposa chikondi" chotsogoleredwa ndi Nigel Cole . Protagonist ndi heroine amadziwana bwino mu kanyumba ka ndegeyo komanso kwa zaka zambiri amalankhulana, kuthandizana, kukhala mabwenzi otsala. Pambuyo pake, amamvetsetsa kuti akugwirizana ndi zina osati kungokhala anzanu okhaokha.