Kawirikawiri yankho la funsoli, kodi kuwonongeka kwa munthu aliyense , yomwe sayansi yaumwini amapereka, imachepetsedwa kukhala kutaya maluso apamwamba a munthuyo kuti aganizire mwakhama, kuchepa kwakukulu kwa zizindikiro zoyambirira za mgwirizano pakati pa anthu ndi zochita bwino, komanso kulephera kuyesa bwino khalidwe la munthu pankhani ya makhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ndondomeko ya kukula kwa umunthu imasinthidwa ndipo munthu amene akugonjetsedwa ndi izi ndizofuna kutsatila kuyitana kwa chikhalidwe choyambirira kusiyana ndi kukhala mogwirizana ndi mayendedwe omwe amakhazikitsidwa m'magulu pofuna kuthetsa kugwirizana kwa anthu payekha ndikutsutsana ndi chikhumbo cholandira moyo wokondweretsa, wodzikonda.
Zizindikiro zowonongeka zimawonetseredwa kuti zimakula, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowonetsa za matenda ovutika maganizo, koma nthawi zambiri zimatha kuwonedwa pakati pa anthu a zaka zapakati omwe akuvutika maganizo kwambiri kapena omwe akhala akukhala ndi goli la maganizo oipa kwa ena kwa nthawi yaitali. Zikatero, munthu, pokhulupirira kuti ndi wopanda pake, ataya chilakolako chofuna kupitiliza kuphunzira ndi kudzikuza kwauzimu, komanso kuvutika maganizo, nthawi zambiri kumangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Pakubwera chikhalidwe choopsa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu, pamene woimira mmodzi wa anthu amamva ngati wotayika ndipo ali ndi vuto losungulumwa nthawi zonse, amatha kulowa mosavuta kuti adziwononge yekha.
Zomwe zimayambitsa zowonongeka
Komabe, zifukwa zowonongeka kwa makhalidwe kapena khalidwe la munthu zingabisike osati mu chiyanjano ndi chikhalidwe chake. Kuledzera mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi njira yolunjika, yomwe imayikidwa ndi ma konti a konkire, ndipo nthawi zambiri imatsogolera pakhomo ndi kulembedwa "Stairs pansi". Anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto ofanana nawo nthawi zambiri amasiya kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa ndipo amatha kuyesa bwino matenda awo, ndipo pazigawo zina za matendawa, kuchepa kwakumverera kwa zochitika kumabweretsa kuwonongeka kwadzidzidzi kwa kudzidziwitsa. Ndipo kuwonongeka kwa makhalidwe kwa munthu amene ali pazochitika zotere kungathe kufika pamzere woopsa pamene woimira gululi angayambe kuopseza anthu ake onse. Potsatira mlingo wotsatira wa mankhwalawa, amatha kuchita zachiwawa, kuphatikizapo ngakhale zovuta kwambiri, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo malingaliro ake adziwona kuti ndizolondola. Zapangidwe, zotchedwa, kusintha mmalo mwa zikhulupiliro, zomwe chikondwerero chapadera chimaperekedwa kwa zosangalatsa, komanso mantha a zovuta zopeweratu zopweteka zomwe zimabwera ngati kumwa mowa kapena mankhwala panthawi yoyenera ndi muyeso wambiri sizingaloĊµe mu thupi, kumabisa kwathunthu maganizo , zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuti aziwone bwinobwino zochita zawo.
Kodi njira yopulumukira ili kuti?
Njira yokhayo yopewetsa kudziletsa pa chisinthiko cha munthu aliyense ndiyo kudzipangira yekha, zonse mwa nzeru ndi zauzimu. Kwa wina, mu liwu lomveka bwino, bwalo lopulumutsa moyo likhoza kukhala chipembedzo chimene chimayankha mafunso ambiri ndipo chimatha kusonyeza njira komanso njira zodzikweza ngati munthu. Kwa ena, chilimbikitso chosafuna kubwerera ndi chikhumbo chofuna kutsutsa anthu ndikukwera kumadera apamwamba. Komabe, momveka bwino, ndikudzidzimutsa, zomwe zimatilangiza kuti tipitirize kukula, malingaliro athu adziwone ngati kuti sitingalekerere kutsutsana ndi njira zonse zomwe zingathetsere nzeru ndi kuwonongeka kwauzimu kwa munthu kumangokhala ntchito.
Mwamwayi, ife tonse tiri chabe madontho osiyana mu nyanja yaikulu ya anthu amasiku ano,