Mungaiwale bwanji mwamuna wokwatira?

"Chifukwa cha atsikana khumi malinga ndi chiwerengero, pali anyamata 9" - ndi momwe amachitira mu nyimbo imodzi yotchuka. Kudziphimba okha ndi mfundo iyi kapena kungokonda makutu, amayi amayamba ubale ndi amuna okwatira. Nthawi zambiri, mgwirizano woterewu ukuwonongedwa, chifukwa chisangalalo chimalowetsedwa ndi umwini wa azimayi, chikumbumtima cha chikumbumtima cha anthu, komanso kuti kuyankhulana kumafunika kusabisa sikusangalatsa. Ndipo ngati msungwana sakufuna kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri podikira maulendo ndi "kusewera azondi", amaganiza zothetsa, kupeza vuto, kuiwala mwamuna wokwatiwa.

Kodi mungaiwale bwanji mwamuna wokondedwa amene mumamukonda?

1. Choyamba, yambani kukhala ndi moyo wokhutira, kupita kumisonkhano yambiri, zosangalatsa, ndithudi mu ubale umene mwakhala nawo nthawi zambiri muzipinda zamakono kapena m'nyumba zanu, kumene zinthu zonse zikukukumbutsani za chikondi chakale.
2. Palibe chophweka kusiyana ndi kuiwala wokonda wokwatiwa m'manja mwa munthu watsopano. Koma musathamangire ku kalasi yoyamba kapena kumapeto kwa zosangalatsa za usiku, nthawizina kuti mudzipatse ulemu ndikubwezeretsanso moyo umene tikusowa kuti tiwonekere, kuzindikira kuti tikukhumba ndi kukondedwa.
3. Tsopano zikuwoneka kuti palibe chovuta kulikonse kusiyana ndi kuiwala mwamuna wokondedwa amene mumamukonda, koma ndikukhulupirirani, nthawi idzatha ndipo mudzakumbukira ubalewu ndi kumwetulira pang'ono. Pakali pano, pamene ubongo uli wodzaza ndi chikondi ndipo sungaganizire moyenera, zikuwoneka kuti zonse zikanakhala zosiyana, kuti suli bwino. Ndipotu, izi siziri choncho. Ganizirani za yemwe adalimbikitsa maganizo awa kwa inu, omwe mukulephera kukumbukira, omwe mumakhala nthawi yochuluka popanda zotsatira. Kodi munthu uyu ndi woyenera chikondi chako? Dzisokonezeni pamodzi! Ndipo ngati buku latsopano silo lingaliro lanu, ndiye pezani kapena kumbukirani zolaula zanu zakale, zokondweretsa, pitani masewera pomaliza.
4. Azimayi, ngakhale atakhala ndi chidwi, zolengedwazo ndi zomveka, ndipo ngati mukufuna kuti muganizire momwe mungadziiwalitsire munthu. Dzilimbikitseni nokha kuti kukhala ambuye akuchititsa manyazi, kuti maora awo achimwemwe sali oyenera nthawi ya chiyembekezo chovuta cha msonkhano wotsatira.

Dzikondeni nokha, muziyamikira nthawi yanu, ndipo mwamuna wosakwatiwa wa maloto anu adzakhala pakhomo lanu mofulumira kuposa momwe mukuganizira.