Msungwana aliyense amapezeka nthawi yomwe akudikirira foni, kalata, uthenga kapena nkhani zina kuchokera kwa mnyamata. Izi zikhoza kukhala monga tsiku loyamba, ndipo pambuyo pa mkangano . Kudikira sikungakhale kolekerera. Ndipo malingaliro osazindikira nthawi yomweyo amabwera pamutu mwanga: bwanji ngati ine sindimamukonda iye, koma bwanji ngati iye atamupeza wina? Ndipo inu simungakonde kuti mulembe kwa iye poyamba, chifukwa amavomerezedwa kuti anyamata ayenera kulemba choyamba. Tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza momwe tingamuthandizire munthuyo poyamba.
Pambuyo pa tsiku loyamba
Kodi mumakonda mnzanu watsopano? Kodi mukufuna kupitiriza kulankhulana, koma simukufuna kulemba poyamba? Mukhoza kuyesa kuti wanu wosankhidwa alembereni kwa inu poyamba. Kuti muchite izi, yesetsani kukumbukira zomwe adanena podziwa kwake koyamba. Yesetsani kuyendana mobwerezabwereza. Mwinamwake iye anatchula malo omwe ankakonda malo otchuthi, kaya ndi cafe, chibonga, malo ogulitsa khofi. Pitani kumalo okondedwa ake, muwone kuti zofuna zanu zigwirizane. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kucheza ndi mtsikana amene mumagwirizana kwambiri.
Ngati mutangolankhula "pafupifupi" ndipo mukuyamba tsiku loyamba, mumaganizira momwe mungapezere munthu wina atakulembani. Pitani kachinyengo kakang'ono, mwangoziyiwala chophimba, magolovesi kapena chinthu china. Adzakulemberani ndi chikhumbo chobwezeretsa chinthu choiwalika. Kotero tidzakhala ndi mwayi wopitiliza kuyankhulana.
Ngati mumakhala moyo wokhutira wa VC ndipo mumakonda munthu, simungathe kumlembera kalata yoyamba. Pambuyo pophunzira tsamba lake, zidzamveka bwino momwe mungamuthandizire munthuyo kulemba VC yoyamba. Pezani kudzera mu zithunzi, nyimbo, kanema. Mosakayikira, ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi mnyamata uyu, muli ndi zofanana. Ndemanga pa zomwe mumakonda, kaya ndi nyimbo kapena kanema. Awona kuti msungwanayo amasonyeza chidwi ndi zochita zake. Adzakhala ndi chidwi ndi izi, ndipo adzakulemberani choyamba.
Momwe mungapangire mnyamata kulemba choyamba pambuyo pa mkangano - malangizo
Kodi timakumana bwanji tikamakangana ndi wokondedwa wathu? Sitikugona usiku, timakumana nawo, tikudikira gawo loyamba kuchokera kwa mnyamata. Koma ambiri samvetsetsa kuti atsikana akuyembekezera kuti awonetsere. Kugona tulo, mumagwiritsa foni m'manja mwanu ndikudikirira SMS-ki? Tiyeni tione momwe munthu angagwiritsire ntchito maganizo ake kulemba. Aliyense amadziwa kuti maganizo athu ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Tumizani kwanu
Komatu, zonsezi ndi msonkhano umene munthu ayenera kulemba poyamba. Ngati ichi ndi chikondi, kapena chikondi cham'tsogolo, kodi ndizoti zomwe mumalemba poyamba zingathe kuwononga izi? Ndikofunika kukhala lero ndikusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse yomwe mumakhala ndi wokondedwa wanu. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri. Musataye masiku amtengo wapatali pamakangano ndi misonkhano. Chikondi ndi kuyamizana wina ndi mzake.