M'dziko lamakono, chikondi cha zinthu kwa ambiri ndi chachilendo. Komabe, pamene malingalirowa akukhala opambana ndipo munthu wochokera ku zinthu zakuthupi akudzipangira yekha fano, ndibwino kuganiza ngati izi ndi zachilendo. Tikupempha kuti tipeze chomwe mwana ali mwana.
Kodi chibadwa chimatanthauza chiyani?
Sikuti aliyense amadziwa tanthauzo la mawu oti fetus. Amachokera ku "feitic" ya Chipwitikizi, yomwe potanthauzira amatanthawuza "kugwiritsa ntchito Katolika". Zina mwazinthuzi - zizindikiro za oyera mtima, mikanda yamatsenga ndi ziphunzitso zina zachipembedzo. Patapita kanthawi, zinthu zina zachilendo zinayamba kutchedwa "mawu" - matabwa, miyala, miphika, ziphuphu, nthenga ndi mbewu.
Pambuyo pake, mawu akuti "fetiche" ndi "fetich" adadziwika bwino m'Chifalansa, Chingerezi ndi zinenero zina za ku Ulaya. Tsopano mu Chifalansa kumatanthauza "fano, zamatsenga". Comte adawatsatanitsa ndipo adawatcha maonekedwe owonetsa anthu achikulire pa zinthu zakuthupi komanso gulu lachikunja lonse. Ndipo tsopano asayansi ambiri amanena za lingaliro la fetishism monga kupembedza kwa zinyama, zozizwitsa za chirengedwe ndi zomera.
Fetishism mufilosofi
Kawirikawiri fetishism imakhudzidwa ndi anthu ogonana kwambiri. Komabe, pali milandu pamene amai amakopeka ndi zinthu zina. Kuti mumvetsetse kuti munthu ali ndi mavuto, ndikofunika kudziwa zizindikiro za fetishism:
- Osati kwenikweni zochitika zomwe zimalepheretsa kugonana. Chitsanzo chikhoza kugonana nthawi zonse pamalo amodzi komanso pambuyo pa kumwa mowa.
- Munthu wokhala ndi chikhulupiliro chotere sangathe kuyesa njira zina zokhutiritsa, chifukwa ukonde uli kale ndi chizoloŵezi choyanjana ndi miyambo iliyonse. Chifukwa cha matendawa, obetishists sangathe kusangalala ndi kugonana.
- Odwala amatha kuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana zokhudzana ndi zinthu zopanda moyo, zomwe zimaphatikizapo malingaliro olakwika .
- Patapita kanthawi, gawo la chinthu chodzikongoletsera chimakhala chofunika kwambiri, ndipo kupezeka kwake ndilo chikhalidwe chachikulu chokhalira okhutira.
- Chidwi m'maseŵera osewerera.
Fetish - psychology
Wachidziwitso wotchuka wa ku Austria Sigmund Freud fetishism anayamba kufufuza mu 1927. Mwa lingaliro lake, iye akusochera ku chiyambi chogonana choyamba. Iye ali wotsimikiza kuti fetishism ndi chifukwa cha zochitika zina zoopsya zomwe zingachitike muunyamata, ndipo adzipeza okha mu chidziwitso. Mkhalidwewu ukhoza kukhalapo pazochitikazi ngati munthu sakudziwa kuti ali ndi chidziwitso chogonana, kapena amakonda chisankho cholakwika.
Anthu omwe ali ndi ubereki m'mbuyomu akhoza kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi amayi awo pafupi ndi zibwenzi. Bambo, ndipo anthu ambiriwo amaonedwa ngati osayenera kuwamvetsera. Malinga ndi Freud, pangakhale chifukwa china choyamba cha matenda - kunyalanyaza mwana kuchokera kumbali ya munthu wobadwa - mayi. A psychoanalyst ankanena kuti fetishism sizingatanthauzidwe kuti ndikutembenuka ku khalidwe labwino.
Fetishism - chipembedzo
Iyenso amavomerezedwa kuti azisiyanitsa fetishini yachipembedzo. Zimamveka ngati kupembedza kwazinthu zopanda moyo, zomwe zingakhalepo chifukwa cha zinthu zakuthupi zosiyana siyana zomwe zakhala zikudziwika ngakhale pakati pa mafuko akalekale. Izi zimachitika masiku athu. Chitsanzo ndi kupembedza mafano mu Buddhism ndi kupembedza kwa Black Stone mu Islam.
M'dziko lamakono muli maubwenzi ochuluka mwa mawonekedwe osiyana ndi zotsutsana. Zinthu zimenezi nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi zamatsenga komanso kumatha kubweretsa mwayi kwa munthu, kuteteza ku zovuta. Chithunzithunzi ichi chakonzedwa kuti chiteteze mwini wake ku chisangalalo. Kawirikawiri nkhani yotereyi ikhoza kukhala gawo lalikulu - mwala wochokera ku phiri lapadera kwambiri, mtengo wa mtengo wopatulika kapena kujambula kwa nyama yopatulika.
Fetishism ndi Totemism
Makolo athu adadziwanso zomwe amachitcha kuti mwana wamasiye, kuyika zinthu zosiyana ndikukhulupirira mphamvu zawo zapadera. Nkhani yapaderayi ingakhale chirichonse chomwe chinali chokhudzana ndi chochitika chofunika m'moyo wa munthu kapena kungokhudza malingaliro ake. Kuwonetseredwa kwa fetishini kumaonedwa mukutamandidwa:
- miyala ya mawonekedwe osazolowereka;
- chidutswa cha nkhuni;
- ziwalo za thupi la nyama;
- zifaniziro zamwala, zitsulo ndi matabwa.
Nthawi zina zinachitika kuti chinthu chosavuta chitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito monga fetusi. Ngati mwiniwake anali ndi mwayi, ndiye kuti amakhulupirira kuti nkhaniyi ili ndi mphamvu zamatsenga . Ngati ndi kotheka, ikhoza kusinthidwa ndi wina. Anthu ena anali ndi chizoloŵezi, malinga ndi zomwe feteleza zinali zofunika, zonse zoyamika ndi kulanga. Ana amatha kukhala ziwalo za zinthu zina. Kungakhale chidutswa cha nkhuni zopatulika kapena kujambula ndi nyama yolemekezeka.
Kodi mwana wamwamuna ali ndi chiwerewere chotani?
Chinthu chotero ngati chibwenzi chogonana sichiri chosavuta. Kawirikawiri ochirikiza fetishis ndi chinthu chosangalatsa ndicho:
- zovala zamkati za akazi;
- nsapato zapamwamba;
- ubweya;
- magolovesi;
- zazimbudzi za amayi.
Cholinga chakutamanda ndi chikhalidwe chofunikira chokhudzana ndi kugonana, osati chilakolako chofuna kugonana mosiyana. Ambiri mafanizidwe a chitsogozo chakupsyopsyona kapena akulingalira chiberekero mpaka atakondwera. Motero chiphadzuwa kapena zochita zingatheke kapena zichitike ndi mwiniwake wa chinthu chopatsidwa, popanda kudalira pa makhalidwe ake.
Kodi fetasi amatanthauzanji?
Nthaŵi zina anthu mozungulira komanso munthu mwiniwakeyo sali womveka bwino pamene chilakolako cha chirichonse chikhoza kutchedwa chizoloŵezi, ndipo pamene matenda akusowa thandizo lothandizira. Ambiri aife tikhoza kukopa zinthu zina ndikukhala ndi zotsatira zolimbikitsa. Komabe, matenda angatchulidwe kuti munthu alibe chidwi ndi makhalidwe ake, koma amakopeka ndi zovala kapena zinthu zina (fetites). Izi zikutanthauza kuti chinthu chomwe chimakhala chibwana kwa anthu otere ndicho chodabwitsa kwambiri.
Chifukwa cha fetishism
Palibe amene angatsutsane ndi mfundo yakuti chibadwidwe ndi zozizwitsa ndi zinthu zogwirizana. Komabe, khalidweli lachokera. Zina mwa zifukwa zowonekera kwa fetishism:
- zovuta zogonana;
- kusokonezeka maganizo ndi umunthu;
- kusonkhana kwa nkhani imodzi kapena yina ndi kugonana kwaukwati kuyambira ali mwana;
- kuopa kugonana kwenikweni ndi mnzanu.
M'tsogolomu, munthu akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito fano ndi fungo la chinthu, kapena zovuta kuti agwirizane. Zomwe zimayambitsa fetishiti mpaka lero sizinaphunzirepo. Pafupifupi munthu aliyense ali ndi chilimbikitso chinachake chimene angathe kuchita molimba mtima. Motero tingathe kumaliza kunena kuti pafupifupi anthu onse amabadwa ndi chikhalidwe cha fetishism.
Kodi fetita ndi chiyani?
Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zibwenzi zogonana:
- zovala;
- mbali za thupi laumunthu;
- zinthu ndi zinyama;
- zizindikiro za khalidwe, maonekedwe ndi chikhalidwe.
Kawirikawiri, fetus yotere imakhala zinthu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Kawirikawiri zibambo zokondweretsa amuna ndi izi:
- zovala;
- zoweta;
- zojambula;
- bras;
- nsapato;
- yunifolomu.
Mtundu woterewu uli ndi mafanizi awo omwe amavala zovala za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Pano pali transvestism ya fetishism. M'dziko la Kutuluka kwa dzuwa, fetishism yakhala imodzi mwa mitundu ya malipiro, kumene amagulitsa nsalu yosasamba. Dziwani zomwe mwana wamasiye ndi wokonda ziwalo zina za thupi:
- tsitsi;
- mammary glands;
- mapazi;
- mapazi.
Momwe mungakhalire ndi mwana wamasiye?
Pamene okwatirana ali ndi fetishita, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa banjali. Kawirikawiri m'moyo wa munthu payekha, kukangana kungabwerere, komwe kumapeto kungayambitse kugonana. Kawirikawiri, kukonda zinthu ndi zinthu kumawoneka mwa amuna. Gawo lachiwiri lingadabwe ndi ana achilendo osadziwika, pakati pawo omwe mulibe mawonekedwe oyeretsa. Ngati munthu wokhala ndi fetishiti sakudandaula za fetishism yake, mukhoza kusiya monga momwe ziliri, koma ngati vuto likusokonekera kwa anthu awiri, ndibwino kuti mutembenukire kwa katswiri wamagonana kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji mwana?
Ngati abambo anu adafunikanso kuti aphunzire za kamwana, yesetsani kuthetsa vutoli. Imodzi mwa mankhwala opindulitsa kwambiri ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Njira imeneyi ndi yovuta kwambiri kuposa psychotherapy ya fetishism, koma mothandizidwa ndi zotsatira zoyenera zikhoza kupezeka mofulumira. Pano, chithandizo cha fetishiti chimapezeka ndi njira yotsatirayi - wodwalayo, yemwe amakopeka ndi chinthu, amasonyeza ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi thupi lake limadziwika ndi kutuluka kwa magetsi. Kapena ngati mwasankha, perekani mankhwala omwe amachititsa khunyu.