Mawu omwe ali mdziko lapansi ndiwo okhawo omwe amapambana kwambiri ndipo adzakhala oyenera. Zoonadi, ngati kale zinthu zakuthupi zinkatanthauzidwa, dziko lamakono limalimbikitsa munthuyo kuti azikwaniritsa zonse zakuthupi ndi zauzimu. Anthu ambiri amafuna kuyambitsa mphamvu za khalidwe kuti akonzekere mavuto alionse m'moyo.
Chikhalidwe champhamvu chingakhudze chilengedwe, anthu ndi ochuluka kuposa talente, etc. Anthu amaweruza ena mwa chikhalidwe chawo. Pambuyo pake, ndi iye amene amalankhula za munthu kuposa mawu ake. Kotero, khalidweli ndi malingaliro a munthu, zikhulupiliro zake, zochita zake ndi mawu ake. Anthu omwe ali ndi khalidwe lamphamvu amakula nthawi yonse. Sizowona kuti khalidwe lalikulu la umunthu limakhazikitsidwa kuyambira ali mwana, koma khalidwe silinasinthe mofulumira, lidzatenga nthawi.
Makhalidwe abwino
Munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lamphamvu ali ndi makhalidwe monga:
- Choyamba ndi kudzidalira. Munthu wamphamvu ali ndi chidaliro muzochitika zonse za moyo, mwa iyemwini, mwa iyemwini. Amatha kuzindikira mwakuzindikira luso lake, kuyesetsa kukulitsa. Anthu oterewa amayamikira kwambiri luso lawo, iwowo, mwayi wa chitukuko chawo. Makhalidwe abwino sakhala ndi mantha okayikira. Komanso amakhala wokonzeka kusintha nthawi zonse.
- Maganizo kwa ena. Zizindikiro za chikhalidwe cholimba, poyamba, zimawonetseredwa mwabwino kwa ena. Anthu oterewa amatha kukhazikitsa ubale weniweni ndi mtundu uliwonse wa chilengedwe. Anthu amphamvu samafuna kuphunzitsa, kutsutsa, kuphunzitsa. Iwo alibe cholinga chogonjera aliyense kwa iwo okha, kuti azikakamiza awo malingaliro, adzakhala, ndi zina zotero.
- Udindo waumwini. Anthu amphamvu amadziŵa kuti chirichonse m'moyo chimadalira pa iwo. Iwo samafuna kukana kapena mosiyana. Kaya ali ndi makhalidwe otani, iye nthawizonse amatenga udindo wake pa zochita zake, zomwe zikutanthauza khalidwe lolimba zimatsogolera anthu otere kukhala ndi moyo wokhala ndi moyo.
- Kuyesera ungwiro. Anthu amphamvu amatha kuganizira zinthu zina. Amakonda kukhala ndi moyo pakupanga chinthu china m'moyo. Choyamba, anthu omwe ali ndi khalidwe lamphamvu amapereka zofunikira kwambiri pa zofuna zawo.
- Kutsegula, chilengedwe. Munthu wamphamvu amatha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake komanso kwa ena. Amakhulupirira malingaliro ake ndipo amatsogoleredwa ndi izi posankha zochita. Ndi kosavuta kulankhula ndi anthu oterewa. Iwo ndi okondwa ndipo nthawizonse amatseguka kuti azilankhulana.
- Kusagwirizana. Anthu amphamvu ali ndi umunthu. Imaonekera mwa chirichonse. Anthu otere samaopa kukhala osiyana. Amayesetsa kufotokoza zaokha.
- Zochitika zapadera. Zokhudza ngati khalidwe lanu liri lolimba, mutha kukhala ndi zochitika zapadera, pafupifupi zongopeka. Iwo akhoza kugwirizana ndi ndondomeko ya kuzindikira, kulengedwa, ndi mapindu ena.
Zochitika izi zikuwoneka popanda zolimbikitsa zina. Anthu amphamvu pa nthawi zotero amamva bwino, kutaya nthawi, ndi zina zotero.
Malamulo oyambirira - momwe mungakhalire ndi khalidwe lolimba
- Sungani nokha wanu. Pangani maganizo anu pazinthu zina, zochitika.
- Nzosadabwitsa amanena kuti mzimu wathanzi m'thupi labwino. Kotero, khalani amphamvu mwathupi. Choyamba, chitani m'mawa
kukakamiza. - Sankhani zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa. Ikani zolinga zomveka. Zomwe amapanga ndi kupindula zidzakuthandizani kukula, kulimbikitsa khalidwe lanu.
- Dziwani kuti muli ndi mphamvu yaikulu. Ingofunika kuti mutsegule. Dzikondeni nokha ndipo pomwepo mavuto alionse pa njira zolinga zanu adzawoneka ngati nyansi yamba.
- Pangani kupyolera mukuwerenga. Musaiwale kuti anthu amawerenga malemba ambiri amphamvu.
Kotero, anthu okhala ndi khalidwe lamphamvu kamodzi, komanso inu, analota izi. Pothandizidwa ndi chipiriro iwo adakwanitsa izi.