Umphawi wamba

Anthu amalankhulana wina ndi mzake kudzera m'mawu omveka ndi opanda mawu, koma ndikulankhulirana mawu omwe akutumikira monga njira yaikulu yolankhulirana. Kulankhulana kwa mawu kumatanthawuza kulankhulana mawu; chinenero chophatikiza kuphatikiza mawu, mawu, mawu a mawu, ndi zina zotero. Ndi chithandizo cha mawu, timapatsana chidziwitso wina ndi mzake, timagwirizana, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, sizingatheke kuti "tisonyeze" maganizo anu kwa woyimilira ndipo, monga lamulo, likugwirizana ndi umphawi womveka.

Kodi umphawi wa mawu umatanthauza chiyani?

Kulankhulana kwachinsinsi ndi kofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu, chifukwa chakuti kukhoza kufotokozera malingaliro anu moluntha ndi chilankhulo cholondola kungadalire ntchito yanu yamtsogolo, udindo pakati pa anthu, ndi zina zotero. Kulankhula "kusinthasintha" kwa anthu onse ndi kosiyana, koma munthu yemwe amadziwa momwe angalankhulire bwino bwino, kulankhulana mwanzeru ndi momveka bwino, adzalemekezedwa nthawi zonse.

Eya, ngati simungathe kufotokozera zomwe mukufuna, simungabweretse zambiri zanu, ngati mawu anu sakusowa, ndiye kuti anthu omwe akuzungulirani sakuzindikira. Ndi "nsautso" mukulankhulana, kulephera kufotokoza ndi kufotokoza malingaliro ake amatchedwa umphawi weniyeni. Ziribe kanthu momwe mumayesera kudzifotokozera nokha, simudzamvekanso, umphaŵi wanu womveka sudzakulolani kuti muchite izi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mudzasungulumwa, osamvetsetsana ndi wina aliyense, motero maofesi, ndi kusatetezeka, ndi chinsinsi.

Kodi nchiyani chomwe chimayambitsa umphawi wa mawu?

Chifukwa cha vutoli ndi kulankhulana kolankhulidwe kungakhale:

1. Kusokonezeka maganizo kwapakati pa ubwana . Kukhumudwa koteroko kungapezeke chifukwa chakuti mwanayo sankaloledwa kulankhula, nthawi zonse amasokoneza nkhani zake, ndi zina zotero, koma pakapita nthawi, chilakolako, komanso malingaliro a malingaliro ndi kulingalira amatha kwathunthu.
2. Kudzichepetsa . Chifukwa cha kusatetezeka, munthu amaopa kunena maganizo ake, poganiza kuti nkhani zake zonse sizikhala zosangalatsa kwa ena, ndipo kuopa kuyang'ana mopanda pake "kumapangitsa kukhala chete", chabwino, kulephera kulankhula kumayambitsa mavuto ndi kuyankhulana.
3. Musalembe kuwerenga . Maulolo sali obadwa ndi munthu kuti alankhule momveka, kukhala ndi mawu akulu, kuti adziwe bwino zokamba, zomwe munthu akufunikira kuti azikulitsa. Kuwerenga mabuku, kulankhulana ndi anthu anzeru, kuyang'ana mafilimu abwino, ndi zina zotero. Zonsezi zimathandiza kutambasula bwino ndipo, ndithudi, zimalankhula chinenero .