Monga momwe tikudziwira, mu psychology zizindikiro ziwiri za kuchuluka kwa makhalidwe a umunthu zimasankhidwa: kutengeka ndi kudzikuza. Choncho, anthu omwe ali okondana, ochita chidwi ndi oyankhula, omwe chidwi chawo chimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa zinthu zakunja, ndi anthu omwe ali otsekedwa ndi okonda kukhala okhaokha. Pali mtundu woterewu monga kusokonezeka maganizo, za zomwe muyenera kuphunzira mozama.
Zizindikiro za extrovert
Makhalidwe amtundu wa umunthu ndi awa:
- Chilakolako chofuna kugwirizana ndi anthu ena. Anthu oterewa amatsatira nthawi zonse, zamakono, ndi maganizo omwe amapatsa zonse zamoyo ndi zinthu zozungulira, ngakhale zopanda moyo. Mwachitsanzo, mu mwana wodalirika, chimbalangondo nthawi zonse chimakhala "chabwino, chokoma, amakonda uchi ndikuyamwa mwana wake."
- Kusokonezeka, kusadziletsa, kuwonetseratu zachiwawa . Ili ndilo kutsogolo kwa mbali yotseguka. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti chisoni chake sichipeza malo ndipo amalowa mkati, "kusuntha" dongosolo la manjenje ndikutsanuliridwa mumatsenga.
- Talente yotsanzira ndi kutsanzira. Munthu wotere amalemba mosamveka mwa anthu zonse zizindikiro za nkhope, manja ndi kayendetsedwe kena, komwe amatha kubwereza, ndikuwuza nkhaniyo ku kampaniyo.
- Kuopa kukhala ndekha. Kusungunuka kwa mumtima kumakhala wolemedwa. Achita mantha ndi lingaliro lachikulire wofooka komanso wosungulumwa.
- Chikhumbo cha kukongola. Anthu oterewa amagwirizana kwambiri ndi maonekedwe awo ndi ena. Iwo ali achinsinsi, amayesera kukopa chidwi chawo, monga iwo.
An extrovert amaona kuti chofunika kwambiri ndi kulingalira kwachilengedwe kwa chilengedwe, koma makamaka zimatsimikiziridwa ndi zokwaniritsa zake, kupambana ndi kulephera kwake.