Zolinga zambiri zimapangidwa pa mkazi wamakono. Kuwonjezera pa kukhala katswiri waluso, kugwira bwino ntchito ndi kumanga ntchito, amafunikanso kudziwonetsa yekha ngati mbuye waluso ali pabedi. Maphunziro a kugonana kwa atsikana amayamba mofulumira kwambiri, ambiri amapereka chitsanzo kuchokera ku zofalitsa zosavuta ndi ma TV, kumene amaumirira molimbika kuti palibe cholepheretsa kukhala teapot pamutu wa zojambula zachikondi.
Kumene mungaphunzire kugonana?
Koma momwe mungaphunzire kugonana, ngati simukumana ndi zochitika zenizeni ndi wina aliyense - musadumphire chifukwa cha izi pabedi ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lokayikitsa? Mwatsoka, atsikana ambiri amachita motere, koma pachabe. Pambuyo pa zonse, nkofunika kuti chochitika choyamba chikhale cholimbikitsa, ndipo popanda chikondi, popanda kukhudzidwa, zimakhala zovuta kuti mkazi azisangalala, atsegule, komanso, kuti atengepo. Ndizovuta kwambiri kuti akhale ndi thanzi labwino ndipo ndi kosavuta kuphunzira makhalidwe abwino momwe angagwiritsire ntchito njira zogonana mozama, ndikupitiriza kuchita.
Zinali zopweteka kwambiri kwa amayi ndi agogo athu: kusanakhale zochepa zazikulu zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Komabe, mu mod anali wodzichepetsa, ndipo, malingana ndi m'badwo wakale, "atsikana okwatirana adatuluka." Ndipo funso la kuphunzitsa kugonana linakulira kokha ndi "atsikana a khalidwe labwino". Tsopano, kukhala savvy ndi erudite pankhani zokhudza chibwenzi si vuto. Panopa pamasewero otsogolera akuyikidwa, m'mizinda ikuluikulu yophunzitsidwa ikuchitika, pali ma pulamu apadera komwe mungatchulidwe kwambiri zomwe mungachite pa kugonana ndi zomwe ziri zosayenera. Mavidiyo ophunzitsawa amapangidwa. Pa masamulo a mabuku ogulitsa mabuku muli mabuku ambiri ndi magazini osiyanasiyana omwe amakonda komanso kachikwama kokhala ndi zithunzi zokongola, kumene uphungu wokhudza kugonana umapereka zonse kuchokera kwa anthu ogonana ndi machitidwe ogonana ndikukhala ndi nyenyezi za malonda. Pambuyo powerenga ma Talmud angapo, mkazi aliyense adzadziwa zoyenera kuchita pa kugonana kuti apeze chisangalalo chomwe sichinachitikepopo. Zomwe zimayambira: musamavutike komanso musakhale odzichepetsa, tengani nokha, musaname ngati chipika chabwino ndipo musamaseke pa bizinesi yodalirika. Pamapeto pake, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito malangizo a anzanu, chifukwa aliyense wa iwo amakhala ndi "chips" komanso njira zamakono.
Phunzirani kugonana nokha
Musanaphunzire kugonana ndi mnzanu wodalirika, ndibwino, kuphatikizapo kukhala ndi chiphunzitso, komanso kufufuza thupi lanu ndi kupeza malo osadziwika bwino, kuti mumvetse chikhalidwe chanu. Pambuyo pake, zosangalatsa za kugonana sizidalira kokha kwa wokondedwa ndi kusintha kwa zochitika. Kuchuluka kwa kumasulidwa kwa amayi, kukwanitsa kukwaniritsa zolaula zokha, kulimbikitsa kugonana kwabwino ndi mnzanu.
Popanda kuchita, n'zovuta kumvetsa kuti kugonana kuli bwino - anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndipo zosankha zimasiyanasiyana. Ngati mufilimu yolaula mumawona kuti zosangalatsa zodabwitsa zimapereka kugonana panyanja kapena phokoso loyima pafupi ndi mtengo, ndiye mmoyo, mchenga umagunda malo osungulumwa, amphepete ang'onoang'ono m'nyanja, nyerere zikugwa pamapazi, zokhumba sizingatheke kuthandizira ku zosangalatsa. Pokhapokha mwa mgwirizano mutha kumvetsetsa mtundu, udindo, kugonana kuchokera ku mitundu yosiyanasiyana yovomerezeka ndi yokondweretsa. Osangoganizira chinthu chomwecho: zomwe simukuzikonda m'chilimwe, sizikuwoneka ngati nyengo yozizira.
Mmene mungagwiritsire ntchito kugonana kwa m'kamwa, munthu aliyense angakuuzeni. Kuchokera kuzinthu zazikuluzikulu muyenera kudziwa kuti malo ovutawa ali pafupi ndi bridle ya penis, potsatira mbolo yomwe ili pansipa, komanso mmalo mwa mapepala ndi perineum. Kukumbukira malingaliro awa ndi kuwagwiritsa ntchito panthawi yogonana, mungathe kusangalala ngakhale popanda katundu wambiri. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi mnzanuyo, chomwe kwenikweni amachikonda kwambiri, ndikuganiza, ndipo kenako mudzamupeza zinthu zatsopano zosangalatsa.
Zotsatira za kugonana
Yankho la funsoli, chifukwa chake anthu amagonana, ndilodziwika bwino:
- kulemera kumachepa, minofu imalimba, chikopa cha khungu chimakula;
- kumalimbikitsa thanzi labwino;
- kuchepetsa chiopsezo cha matenda a mtima;
- Maganizo amakula, chifukwa kugonana kumakhala bwino kwambiri;
- chitetezo cha mthupi chimakula, kukana matenda opatsirana kumawonjezeka;
- Kupweteka kumachepa, kupweteka mutu ndi dzino limadulidwa;
- Chiyembekezo cha moyo chimakula.
Anthu amagonana pofuna kufotokoza malingaliro awo, chikondi chawo, chikondi, kudzimva bwino, okongola ndi okondedwa. Kugonana kwabwino kumalimbikitsa mgwirizano pakati pa okondedwa awiri.
Kodi kugonana kungabweretse mavuto?
Tiyeni tiyang'ane funso ili kuchokera kumbali ina ndikupeza ngati kugonana kuli koopsa. Inde, pali zinthu zina zomwe siziyenera kuchitidwa, kapena muyenera kuzichita mosamala. Ngati zikutanthauza kuti palibe chomwe chingateteze, musatenge zoopsa - nthawi yochepa yokondweretsa siyikufanana ndi mantha ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi mimba yosafuna kapena matenda opatsirana pogonana. Zimakhala kuti panthawi ya mimba, ndi chenjezo la dokotala, nkoyenera kuwonetsa chipiriro. Ngati muli otsimikiza za mnzanuyo ndipo mulibe zopinga, bwanji osapatsana zosangalatsa komanso osaonjezera nthawi ya moyo?