"Tengani udindo pa mawu anu," "Kodi ndiwe wosasamala," "Khalani ndi udindo kwa banja lanu" ... Kusayamika ndi udindo ... Ndi chiyani? Ndi chiyani, kwa ndani komanso chifukwa chiyani chiyenera kutengedwa? Udindo wokha mu chilengedwe sichikupezeka - ndizochokera kwa munthu, mwiniwakeyo. Ife timalenga izo tokha, kulenga izo, kuzipatsa izo ufulu kukhalapo ndi kuziyamikira. Palibe amene angakhoze kunena ndendende udindo, chifukwa aliyense wa ife amalingalira tanthauzo lake lenileni. Komabe, mulimonsemo, udindo ndi, zedi, zowonjezera zomwe timaganiza kapena kuzipatsa anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe. Udindo ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri ndi zofunika kwambiri m'dera, pamodzi ndi bungwe, kuletsa ndi khama.
Kusasamala konse
Anthu amasiku ano akukumana ndi mavuto akuluakulu, omwe, ndithudi, ndi vuto la kusaweruzika. Izi zikuwonekera m'badwo wathu, umene umangokhala m'malo mwawo wokha, zosowa zawo, osayang'anitsitsa osati kwa alendo, alendo, komanso kwa achibale awo, anthu apamtima. Anthu ambiri safuna ndipo samadziwa momwe angatengere udindo wawo ndipo akukhala osowa kwambiri, osaganizira, ndikungoganizira zokhazokha zawo.
Vuto la kusalabadira - zifukwa ndi zotsutsana
Ngati titha kufotokozera kuti "kusalabadira", ndiye kuti ndizo zikhalidwe zomwe zimaphatikizapo kusafuna kutenga maudindo, kusafuna kukwaniritsa, kukhumba kutaya udindo kwa munthu wina, komanso kulephera kusunga mawu. Mbali imeneyi imabadwa ndi chizoloŵezi cha munthu kuti abwezeretse bizinesi mochedwa. Pafupifupi aliyense amakonda kukoka nthawi, akungoyamba nthawi yaitali asanayambe ntchito. Malingana ndi kafukufuku, anthu ambiri samayamba kugwira ntchito mwamsanga. Ambiri a iwo amangotchula anthu omwe si ololedwa. Mutha kuwatcha anthu kulenga, koma ziribe kanthu kuti iwo ndi olondola bwanji, anthuwa sakhala osamala.
Kusasamala kwa mwamuna
Zitsanzo za kusasamala, zomwe zimapezeka m'mabuku amakono, zikhoza kulembedwa mosalekeza. Ndipo, monga momwe akuwonetsera, pali amayi ambiri ozindikira kuposa amuna. Kawirikawiri ndizosavomerezeka kwa mwamuna. Izi sizosadabwitsa. Masiku ano, abambo ambiri amakhala odzikonda, osakhala achichepere, ndipo izi ndizo zifukwa zazikulu zothetsera mabanja ambiri m'dziko lathu. Si zachilendo kukumana ndi amayi omwe alibe amayi omwe amaphunzitsa, kupereka ana awo, nthawi zambiri popanda thandizo la atate wamoyo! Tsiku ndi tsiku, ana amafuna chakudya ndi chisamaliro, sangayembekezere papa kudzutsa udindo ndi kumvetsa kufunika kwa zinthu, zofunikira. Ndithu, ife tiri ndi udindo kwa iwo omwe adayikidwa, ngakhale atabwera ku kamba kapena galu, osatchula udindo wa anthu omwe anapatsidwa kwa ife ndi Mulungu. Ndipo kwa udindo uwu amayi ali okhoza ... Ichi ndi vuto lalikulu la nthawi yathu.
Luso lokhala ndi udindo pa zolakwitsa zawo ndikumasowa ndithudi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri, kwa amuna ndi akazi. Ndipo ngati munthu aliyense atadzitsatira pa ndondomekoyi, osati kugonjera zofooka zake zonse, ndikuchita mogwirizana ndi chikumbumtima komanso kuchita zomwe akufuna - kukhala m'dera lathu kudzakhala kochepetsetsa.