Kusamalira anthu ndi luso lenileni komanso sayansi yovuta. Kugonjetsa anthu, kuwaumiriza kuti achite zomwe mukufuna kuti awatsogolere mu "njira" yawo, muyenera kuphunzira njira zina zamaganizo zokopa munthu. Pali njira zambiri zomwe zimakuphunzitsani kuti mukhale pansi pa anthu kapena kukhala ndi luso lotha kuyendetsa anthu mwa inu, koma tidzakambirana bwino lomwe.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kusamalira anthu?
Kuti mumvetse momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito anthu, muyenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso cha maganizo a anthu, kuti "mutha kuzindikira" makhalidwe omwe ali nawo, makhalidwe awo. Komabe, luso loyang'anira anthu sikuti limafuna kuphunzira kokha, koma komanso lothandiza, kuti likhudze munthu, nkofunika kuphunzira njira zoyenera zogwira ntchito ndikuchita nthawi zonse, ndikudziwitsidwa kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito njira zowonetsera anthu. Kotero, tiyeni tsopano titsegulire njira zogwira mtima kwambiri, pogwiritsira ntchito zomwe mungagonjetse munthu:
- Kupempha ndi dzina . Kuitana munthu dzina lake, mumasonyeza kuti mumamulemekeza, ndikugogomezera kufunika kwake, motero kupeza malo ake.
- Chipinda chonyamulira . Zikuwoneka kuti izi sizili zovuta konse, zongomveka kwambiri, mawu okongola, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, sizinthu zophweka, ngati munthu amadzimva kuti ndi wosayera, mumamukhumudwitsa nthawi yomweyo. Kuti mukhale osangalatsa anthu, muyenera kudziŵa kuti mungathe kuchita chiyani, potsata amene, ndi zina zotero. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumanyalanyaza munthu amene ali ndi ulemu waukulu, ndiye kuti mukhoza kukwaniritsa malo ake ndikupangitsa kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino, ndipo ngati njira yomwe mumagwiritsira ntchito poyenderana ndi munthu wovuta, ndiye kuti angayese kuyamikira kwanu, monga kuseka, ngakhale kutsekedwa mwa iwoeni ndipo zidzakhala zovuta kale kukonzekera nokha ndi kupambana chikhulupiliro.
- Kumvetsera mwatcheru . Mukamayankhula ndi munthu, musamamulepheretse ngakhale kuti maganizo ake akusiyana ndi anu ndipo simukugwirizana kwambiri ndi maganizo ake. Mvetserani kwa oyankhulana, aloleni alankhule, ndiye muwonetsere ulemu wanu, potsindika kufunika kwa malingaliro ake. Pokhapokha atatha kumaliza kulankhula kwake ndikulankhulana, wothandizana naye amayamba kukumverani, ngakhale maganizo ake akusiyana ndi anu.
- Yolani kuyang'ana . Phunzirani kuyang'ana anthu molunjika, osati kungokhala, koma ngati munthu wamba. Muyenera kusonyeza malo anu olimba, chidaliro, khama ndi chipiriro. Maganizo oterowo pamsinkhu wachikumbumtima amachititsa munthu kukhala wogonjera, wosafuna kukangana ndi munthu wamphamvu.
- Hypnosis . Anthu ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angayendetsere munthu ndi mphamvu ya ganizo, njira iyi imangodalira pa izi. Inu mumalimbikitsa malingaliro anu, mumalangize chifuniro chanu, mutengere chidziwitso cha munthu. Komabe, akatswiri okha angagwiritse ntchito hypnosis, anthu omwe sadziwa kuti ndi bwino kuti asayese, chifukwa zingakhale zoopsa.
- Kuyamikira . Ngati munapempha munthu kuti achite chinachake, ndiye mutatha ntchitoyi, onetsetsani kuti mumamuyamikira, ndiye mutamuwonetsa munthuyo kufunika kwake ndikuchititsa ulemu mu adiresi yake.
Zopempha zanu zidzapitirira kukwaniritsidwa, ndi mofulumira kwambiri. - Nenani ayi . Anthu ambiri samadziwa momwe angathere. Ambiri amakhala osasangalatsa, ambiri amanyazi, ena amaopa kukhumudwitsa, ndi zina zotero. ngati mutaphunzira kunena "ayi" molimba mtima, ndiye kuti anthu oyandikana nawo adzamva mwa inu munthu wamphamvu, wolimba mtima komanso wachidwi, omwe simukufuna kukangana naye konse.
Popeza mwaphunzira lero zamakono zamakono za momwe mungayendetsere anthu, yesani tsopano zonsezi pakuchita, ndipo mwinamwake mungathe kukhala mtsogoleri.