Liwu lakuti "Matenda a Stockholm" poyamba limangodziwika chabe ndi maganizo a anthu ogwidwa, kumene amayamba kuwamvera chisoni ndi omenyana nawo. Pambuyo pake mawuwa adalandira ntchito yaikulu ndipo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutanthauzira chidwi cha wogwiriridwa ndi wachiwawa.
Hostage Syndrome kapena Stockholm Syndrome
The Stockholm Syndrome inalandira dzina lochokera kwa Niels Bijerot yemwe anali wochita zachiwawa, amene anagwiritsira ntchito ntchitoyi pofufuza momwe anachitira ku Stockholm mu 1973. Zinali za anthu ena omwe adagonjetsa amuna ndi abambo atatu ndipo kwa masiku asanu adawasunga kubanki, akuwopseza miyoyo yawo.
Chodabwitsachi chinawululidwa pamene anthu ogwidwa anamasulidwa. Mwadzidzidzi, ophedwawo adagonjetsa adaniwo ndipo adafuna kuti apolisi apite kukapulumutsa. Amunawa atapita kundende, ozunzidwa adawafunsira zabwino ndikuwathandiza. Mmodzi mwa anthu ogwidwawo adasudzula mwamuna wake ndipo analumbirira kumvera kwa womenyana naye, yemwe adawopsyeza moyo wake chifukwa cha masiku asanu ndi aatali awa. M'tsogolomu, azimayi awiri adagwirizana nawo.
Zinali zotheka kufotokoza zotsatira zosayembekezereka za zomwe zinachitikira ovomerezeka. Ozunzidwawo pang'onopang'ono anayamba kudzizindikiritsa okha ndi adaniwo panthawi yomwe amakhala kugawo lomwelo ndi omwe akugonjetsa. Choyamba, njirayi ndi njira yotetezera maganizo yomwe imakulolani kukhulupirira kuti othawa sangapweteke.
Ntchito yopulumutsa anthu ikayamba, zinthuzo zimakhalanso zoopsa: tsopano sizowonongeka chabe, komanso omasulidwa, ngakhale atakhala opanda nzeru. Nchifukwa chake wogwidwayo amatenga malo otetezeka kwambiri - mgwirizano ndi omenyana nawo.
Chigamulocho chinatenga masiku asanu - panthawiyi mopanda chidwi pali kuyankhulana, wogwidwayo amazindikira wolakwayo, zolinga zake zimakhala pafupi nazo. Chifukwa cha kupsinjika maganizo, zikhoza kuoneka ngati malotowo, momwe zinthu zonse zimasinthidwira, ndipo opulumutsira momwemo angayambitse mavuto onse.
Matenda a Stockholm
Masiku ano matenda a Stockholm m'mabanja amapezeka nthawi zambiri. Kawirikawiri muukwati wotere, mkazi amavutika ndi chiwawa kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake, kuyesa chifundo chachilendo kwa wachiwawa monga wogwidwa kwa adani. Ubale womwewo ukhoza kukhala pakati pa makolo ndi ana.
Monga lamulo, matenda a Stockholm amachitika mwa anthu ndikuganiza za "wozunzidwa". Ali mwana, alibe kholo la makolo komanso chisamaliro, amawona kuti ana ena m'banjamo amakonda kwambiri. Chifukwa cha ichi, amakhulupirira kuti ndi anthu apamwamba, nthawi zonse amakopeka ndi mavuto omwe sali oyenerera. Makhalidwe awo amachokera pa lingaliro: osachepera kulankhula ndi wachiwawa, kupsa mtima pang'ono. Monga lamulo, wolakwiridwa sangathe kukhululukira wozunza, ndipo
Thandizo ndi matenda a Stockholm
Ngati tiganizira za matenda a Stockholm m'moyo wa banja (izi ndizo zovuta kwambiri), ndiye kuti, monga lamulo, amabisa mavuto ake kwa ena, ndipo amafufuza chifukwa cha chiwawa cha mwamuna wake. Akamayesetsa kumuthandiza, amayamba kumbali ya mwamuna wake.
Mwatsoka, ndizosatheka kukakamiza munthu wotereyo kuthandizira. Pokhapokha ngati mkazi adziwa kuti zowonongeka ndi banja lake, amazindikiranso kuti zochita zake ndizomwe zilibe phindu komanso kuti alibe chiyembekezo, adzatha kusiya ntchitoyo. Komabe, popanda kuthandizidwa ndi wodwalayo, kukwaniritsa kupambana kudzakhala kovuta, kotero ndikofunikira kukaonana ndi katswiri, komanso poyamba, bwino.