Kulankhulana ndi kuyanjana, anthu "amaphunzira" wina ndi mnzake. Timati timadziwa munthu ngati zala zathu zisanu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti munthuyu watiphunzira. Kulingalira kumatipangitsa kukhala ovuta, ndipo kusadziwiratu kumatipatsa mphamvu. Chofunika kwambiri ndi wosakayikira wa wokamba nkhani. Iye akhoza kusokoneza, kugonjetsa, kuyambitsa kuyamikira ndi makamu, ngati iye angakhoze kuchita chinachake chimene sichiyembekezeredwa kwa iye.
Kukwanitsa kusadziŵika, mwanjira ina, ndi njira yothetsera maganizo pa munthu. Komabe, tsopano tidzakhala ndi njira zogwiritsira ntchito mwatsatanetsatane, ndithudi, popanda kuiwala kuwonjezera pa aliyense wa iwo "pinch" yosadziwiratu.
Mitundu ya zotsatira pa anthu
Choyamba, tiyeni tiyankhule za njira zokhudzira maganizo pa munthu, zomwe timachita mwadzidzidzi, osadzidziwa tokha, tizigwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse.
- Chopempha sichingowonongeka, makamaka ngati mukuchita ndi munthu wofooka. Choncho, funsani kuti mukwaniritse chikhumbo chanu. Muzipempha zomwe timapempha kuti tikwanitse zosowa zathu, zosowa.
- Kutsutsana - gwiritsani ntchito pamene mukutsimikiza kuti interlocutor wanu sakudziwa momwe angapangire zifukwa zomveka pakupita. Chizindikiro chotsutsana ndi chidziwitso. Cholinga cha maganizo oterewa kumakhudza munthu ndikutenga kapena kusintha malingaliro kapena maganizo a wothandizira okhutira m'njira yomwe amatsogoleredwa ndi ntchito yake.
- Kunyalanyaza - njira iyi ikhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna kugwiritsidwa ntchito, komanso kuti muteteze nokha kuti musagwedeze maganizo anu. Kunyalanyaza kumatanthauza kunyalanyaza mwadala, osati kumvetsera.
- Kutsatsa kapena kudzikuza - izi ndi zomwe tonse timachita. Ndi njira iyi yogwira mtima pa anthu, timapanga maganizo athu pamutu pawo ndi manja awo,
kudziyanjanitsa ndi anthu apamwamba, kusonyeza mphamvu, luso, luso. - Malangizo akugwira ntchito ndi zomangamanga. Njira imeneyi ili ndi azimayi, azinyalala, a hypnologists. Mothandizidwa ndi lingaliro, pali zotsatira pa psyche, momwe kuganiza kwakukulu kumatayika. Amisiri a malingaliro ali opuma mumsewu, omwe alibe nthawi yolankhula mawu angapo, monga momwe mumadzipeza kale mulibe mphete, mawotchi ndi thumba.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji njira yogwiritsira ntchito?
Akatswiri mu njira zamaganizo zowonekera kwa anthu amadziwa momwe tingawonere zovuta zathu. Zochitika pamoyo, maphunziro, kulera, umoyo - zonsezi ziri bwino kuwerenga ndi maso a katswiri.
Izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa osati kokha kuti mupeze mphamvu pa maganizo a anthu ena (monga momwe amachitira anthu ena), komanso kuti mutetezedwe ku chiwonongeko cha malingaliro omwe ali kunja kwanu.