Banja losangalala

Ambiri a ife timalota za banja losangalala - banja losangalatsa, nyumba yosangalatsa, misonkhano ndi achibale ndi abwenzi pamapeto a sabata. Zikuwonekeratu kuti nkofunikira kugwira ntchito pa chilengedwe, sizomwe zili choncho kuti achibale achikulire akunena mawu opatukana "chisangalalo cha banja chili m'manja mwanu". Komabe, pamaganizo oterewa amathera, komanso chomwe chiri chofunikira kuti banja likhale losangalala, aliyense wa ife ayenera kumvetsetsa yekha.

Kodi chimwemwe cha banja n'chiyani?

Mwachidziwikire, mkazi aliyense amafuna kupeza njira yopezera chimwemwe cha banja, amayesa kufotokozera njira yake. Koma palibe zinsinsi kuno, ziwerengero zonse zakhala zikuchitika kale, ndipo zilembo zakhala zitatsimikiziridwa kale. Nkhunda zitatu zomwe banja limakhala lopangidwa ndi chikondi, ulemu ndi kudalirika.

1. Kodi chimwemwe cha banja chimayamba kuti? Aliyense adzapeza zovuta kwambiri, ambiri amaona kuti ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri m'banja laling'ono kuti mwana awoneke, kuti wina akhale wosangalala kwambiri ndikusamukira ku nyumba yatsopano, ndipo ena adzazindikira za ukwati. Koma palibe chomwe chingatheke popanda chikondi - ndani akufuna kugona usiku uliwonse ndi munthu amene samayambitsa zowawa?
2. Ndipo kumatanthauza chiyani kugwirizanitsa tsogolo lanu ndi munthu wina, ngati kuti alibe chidaliro chonse mwa iye? Titakwatirana, timamukhulupirira munthuyo moyo wake komanso moyo wa ana amtsogolo. Ndicho chifukwa chake mkazi ayenera kudalira mwamuna wam'tsogolo, mwachikondi, komanso m'banja. Chotsimikizika kuti mwamunayo adzatha kusamalira banja ndi chofunikira kwambiri, ndipo palibe mzimu wachabechabe m'menemo.
3. Anthu ena opanda nzeru amanena kuti kuyenera kuonekera polemekeza, ndipo chikondi chimatha. Koma okwatirana amakhala moyandikana kwa nthawi yaitali amakhulupirira kuti kulemekeza chikondi ndi kulankhula sikofunika. Ngati simusamala za malingaliro, malingaliro, malingaliro a wina ndi mzake, kodi simukulemekeza mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu monga munthu, kodi chikondi chimenechi?

Zinsinsi za Banja Losangalala

Ndi zigawo zikuluzikulu za Chinsinsi cha banja losangalala, talingalira, ndipo ndi malamulo ena ati omwe alipo?

1. Landirani munthuyo monga momwe aliri, popanda kuyesa kukonzanso ndi kuphunzitsanso. Inde, ndizovuta, koma ngati mwakhumudwa ndi zizolowezi za mwamuna wanu ndipo simukupeza bwino kuposa "kumuwona" ndi chisangalalo chanu, ndiye kuti sipadzakhala mgwirizano ndi chitonthozo m'banja.
2. Chitsimikiziro cha chisangalalo cha banja chingatchedwe chikhumbo cha okwatirana kuti achite zonse pamodzi. Ndipotu, banja ndilo anthu, choncho zosankha ziyenera kupangidwa palimodzi, ndipo zomwe zimachitika kwa banja, udindo uli ndi onse okwatirana. Ndipo, kuwonjezera apo, dera la zosowa ndilofunikira kokha kuti pakhale mgwirizano wa nthawi yaitali. Ngati palibe zofuna zoterozo, pambuyo phokoso la mahomoni ndi malingaliro, mwamuna ndi mkazi samangomvetsa zomwe zimawagwirizanitsa. Kugonana kwabwino ndi kwakukulu, koma sikokwanira.
3. Mwa njira, za kugonana. Si chinsinsi kuti pakapita nthawi, zilakolako zimachepa, ndipo moyo wapamtimawo sungakhale wodzaza kwambiri kuposa kale. Koma zonse ziri mmanja mwathu, pafupifupi akazi onse ali ndi malingaliro abwino, kotero nchiyani chomwe chimalepheretsa kusagwiritsidwa ntchito pazifukwa zabwino? Masewera olimbitsa thupi, chakudya chamakono, zovala zamkati zamkati - inde, simudziwa zomwe mungaganize kuti mukondweretse mwamuna wanu wokondedwa.
4. Kawirikawiri, banjali likuyamba kupeza omwe amagwira ntchito kwambiri, omwe amachita zambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala. Koma njira iyi ndi yonyenga, nonse inu mukugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti muzisangalala ndi zipatso za ntchito yanu mu chisa chokoma. Mu banja losangalala, okwatirana sadzapikisana ndi kudzitamandira pazopambana zawo, koma adzayesera kukondwera ndi zomwe zinachitikira ndi kuthandizira ngati akulephera.
5. Popanda mikangano ndizosatheka kukhala ndi moyo, koma nkofunika kuti muzindikire zolakwitsa zanu. Simungathe kukhumudwa kwa nthawi yayitali, kunyozedwa kumakhala ndi malo okwanira, ndipo patapita masiku angapo, chikho chokonda mkazi sichikuwoneka ngati chosokoneza, chophwanyika ndi kusokonezeka kwa mwamuna wake. Choncho musafulumire ndi chiyanjanitso, ndipo kumbukirani - pamakangano, onse amakhala akuimba mlandu.