Kuchokera momwe munthu amalankhulira, zimadalira kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, momwe angalankhulire ndi ena, momwe angamangire ntchito yake komanso moyo wake wonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake kudziwa momwe mungaphunzire kulankhula bwino n'kofunika. Pali anthu omwe ali olankhula olankhula, koma aliyense ali ndi mwayi wopanga mphatso yotere.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuyankhula?
Kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zabwino, muyenera kuphunzitsa nthawi zonse komanso mwakhama. Pali zovuta zambiri, koma pali zinthu zingapo zofunika, tikambirana za iwo.
Momwe mungaphunzire kulankhula ndi anthu molondola:
- Ndikofunika kupanga malingaliro mokhulupirika, omwe amawerengera mabuku kapena magazini, popeza malemba onse adutsa mkonzi, choncho amamanga molondola. Lembani malingaliro anu, awwerenge ndi kuwunikira zolakwazo. Chizoloŵezi chimenechi chidzathandiza kuthetsa vutoli.
- Chotsatira chotsatira, momwe mungaphunzire kulankhula mwanzeru - lembani mawu anu. Pachifukwa ichi, nkofunikanso kuwerengera, koma osati mabuku wamba, koma ntchito zowopsya kwambiri zokhudza gawo lina. Mawu osayenera akuti "decrypt" pogwiritsa ntchito dikishonale.
- Ngati pali mavuto pakulankhula pagulu, ndiye kuti muyenera kuwakonzekera bwino. Poyamba, lembani zolemba zanu zonse pamakhadi omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mudziwe zambiri zofunika.
- Kumvetsetsa momwe mungaphunzire kulankhula ndi anthu, ndizofunika kunena za mawu-zizindikiro, zomwe ziyenera kuti zisatulukidwe m'mawu awo. Izi zikugwiritsidwanso ntchito pachinenero choipa, komanso mau oti "mwachifupi", "mwachidule", "mtundu", etc. Kuzindikira "tizirombo" anu, ingolembani zokambirana ndi mnzanu kapena achibale pa zojambula.
Pofotokozera malingaliro ake , yesetsani kufotokozera chinthu chachikulu, kotero interlocutor sadzatopa ndi kuyankhula ndipo amatha kumvetsa bwino. Izi zikhoza kuphunziranso polemba ziganizo ndikuchotsa mawu osayenera.