Kodi mungayankhe bwanji poyamikira?

Kuyamikika kwa munthu kungayambitse zosiyana. Ena amayamba manyazi kwambiri, wina amayamba kukayikira. Ndipo pali anthu omwe amayamba kutsimikizira munthu winayo. Zikuwoneka kuti, inde, mumaponya, ndikuwoneka zonyansa lero. Zochita zonsezi zimaonedwa kuti ndizolakwika poyamikiridwa. Koma momwe mungayankhire ndi chiyamiko, ngati mukuwona kuti simukuyenera kapena ayi?

Tisanayambe kupita ku uphungu, momwe tingayankhire moyamika, tiyeni tiwone momwe tingawazindikire poyamba:

1. Choyamba, musamakhulupirire kuti mawu okondweretsa omwe mumamvawa ndi oyenerera. Dzivomerezeni nokha kuchokera kumalo apamwamba a interlocutor wanu. Kutsutsa kwanu sikuli njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kuyamikiridwa kwabwino.
2. Phunzirani kuzindikira mawu oyankhulidwa kuchokera kumbali ya munthu amene amawayankhula. Ngakhale simukukhulupirira kuti mukugwirizana, sizikutanthauza kuti interlocutor yanu silingaganize mosiyana.
3. Yankho loyenera kwambiri ndi lochepa kwambiri: "Zikomo, ndikukondwera kwambiri."
4. Musathamangire kuyankha wina ndi mzake ndi kugwirizanitsa. Sankhani nthawi yoyenera ya yankho lanu.
5. Musanayambe kuphunzira machitidwe, momwe mungayankhire ndi kuyamikiridwa mwanjira yapachiyambi, phunzirani kudziyesa nokha. Podzichepetsa, mawu onse omwe mumanena ku adiresi yanu amawoneka ngati kudzitukumula ndi kunyansidwa, komwe kungakhale yankho limodzi lokha - kuyanjana. Ndipo ndithudi simukusowa.

Ndingayankhe bwanji poyamikira?

Tiyeni tione zomwe zikuchitika motsatira ndondomeko yoyenera ku chiyamiko chomwe mudapanga.

1. Lolani maganizo osamvetsetsa avomere ndi kukhulupirira zomwe mwanena. Kondwerani, ngakhale mutamva chiyamiko mwa mawu amodzi. Koma mwadzidzidzi munthu sakudziwa kulankhula mwanjira ina. Kapena kodi ndi wamanyazi chabe? Kusanyalanyaza kwanu kapena kusayanjanitsika kungachoke m'malo osasangalatsa mu moyo wa interlocutor.
2. Yang'anani mu maso a munthuyo ndi kumwetulira. Zikutanthauza kuti kuyamika ndi chikhumbo chakuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala. Kotero, inunso simuyenera kukhalabe ndi ngongole.
3. Fotokozani kuyamikira kwanu. Ngati muli otsimikizika pamaso pa munthu wothandizana nawo, mumatha kuyankha mofulumira. Izi zidzakuthandizani kutuluka mu zovuta.

Zolakwitsa zopangidwa ndi anthu omwe sadziwa momwe angayankhire ndi kuyamikiridwa zingasokoneze ubale wokhawokha, komanso ubale wokhalitsa. Musatsutse ndikudzidetsa nokha. Simuyenera kudzikhululukira nokha. Musanyalanyaze izo nkomwe. Chokhachokha chingakhoze kupangidwira kwa anthu okha osasangalatsa, kulankhulana komwe simumalakalaka panopa kapena mtsogolo.

Ndipo zimakhala zophweka kwambiri kuyankhulana ndi mnzanu wapamtima, mnzanu wabwino komanso ngakhale anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo mofanana. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kupeza njira yothetsera vuto, pamene mawu okondweretsa amalankhulidwa ndi munthu, komanso ngakhale amene mumamverera chisoni ngakhale pang'ono. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri apa sikuti musataye mutu wanu ndipo musaganize zabodza. Munthu akhoza kukhala wachifundo komanso wolimba mtima ndi inu, ndipo mumadziganizira nokha Mulungu amadziwa.

Kodi mungayankhe bwanji kwa mnyamata kuti ayamike?

Musataye mayamiko pamene mzimayi flirts ndi inu. Mwa ichi simukukhumudwitsa zokhazokha, koma nayenso.

Zikupezeka kuti inu nokha mumadzipezera nokha kukhala woyamikira munthu. Kuonjezera apo, ngakhale mutakhala ndi maganizo osiyana pa maonekedwe anu kapena khalidwe lanu, nthawi zonse kuvomereza kuyamikiridwa ndi amuna kapena akazi, inu nokha mudzayamba kukhulupirira zokongola zanu ndi zapadera. Momwe mungayankhire ndi chiyamiko kwa mwamuna? Inde, ingosonyeza kuyamikira kwanu kwa iye, makamaka chifukwa chakuti amakupatsani inu kudalira kwambiri.