Ulemu

Ulemu umatanthauzidwa ngati woona mtima, wosakhoza kuchita chiwerewere, ntchito zochepa. Choncho, munthu wabwino ndi munthu amene ali ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso amakhalidwe apamwamba, omwe amachititsa kuti azitsatira zikhalidwe zomwe amavomereza. Chinthu chachikulu mwa izi ndi kukana mwachinyengo ntchito zosayera. Ndipotu, kuwona mtima ndi ulemu zimatanthauza chinthu chomwecho, kuwona mtima kokha - kutanthauzira mozama komanso kumakhudza makamaka matanthauzo a mawu, ndi ulemu - kutanthauzira kwakukulu mu tanthauzo lake.

Lingaliro la khalidwe

Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, palinso malingaliro okhudza ubwino. Mwachitsanzo, khalidwe la munthu m'thupi limapereka udindo wake poyanjana ndi msungwanayo, kusowa chinyengo pa mbali yake. Lingaliro la khalidwe la msungwanayo nthawi zambiri limatanthauziridwa kukhala woyera mtima wake kapena kukhulupirika kwake kwa mnzanu, komanso njira yolondola ya moyo kuchokera ku malo owonetsera. Malinga ndi chikhalidwe ichi, mawu monga "kunyada kwa mnyamata - khalidwe la chibwenzi chake" linadziwika.

Komabe, lingaliro limeneli ndi lalikulu kwambiri kuposa nyumbayo. Kodi, kwenikweni, ndi khalidwe la munthu?

1. Makhalidwe amenewa amalola kuti tizitha kuchitira anthu ena nzeru, kukhala achifundo ndi achifundo.
2. Ulemu umatanthauza kuti munthu amalimbikitsa chidziwitso cha chilungamo, ndipo amatsatira mfundo imeneyi ngakhale mosasamala za zofuna zake.
3. Ulemu umatanthauza kuti mulimonse mmene munthu angachitire chikumbumtima.
4. Ulemu umatsimikizira ulemu kwa anthu ena.
5. Mbali imeneyi imakupatsani inu chisankho choyenera, cholondola ndikukhala ndi udindo kwa iwo.
6. Ulemu ndi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri pa nthawi iliyonse komanso nthawi zonse.

Mayeso a khalidwe

Kuti mudziwe mlingo wanu wamakhalidwe abwino, ndikwanira kupititsa mayesero. Yankhani mafunso onse "inde" kapena "ayi". Ngati mwatayika, kumbukirani mwezi watha wa moyo wanu.

1. Nthawi zina ndimaseka ndi nthabwala zosasangalatsa.
2. Ngati andisamalira mwachilungamo, ndidzayankha chimodzimodzi.
3. Ndili ndi mavuto azachuma.
4. Ngakhale ngati sindimakonda munthu, ndidzakondwera ndi kupambana kwake kwakukulu.
5. Nthawi zina ndimayimitsa bizinesi yofulumira.
6. Kunyumba komanso ku kampani, ndikuchita mosiyana.
7. Ndine wopanda tsankho.
8. Sindinena nthawi zonse zoona.
9. Mu masewera aliwonse ndimayesetsa kupambana.
10. Nthawi zina ndimakwiya.
11. Kuti ndidzipatse ndekha nthawi zina ndimapanga chinachake.
12. Nthawi zina ndimakwiya.
13. Ndili mwana, ndinali womvera ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndinachita zomwe akundiuza.
14. Nthawi zina ndimakwiya.
15. Zimapezeka kuti ndimaseka ndi nthabwala zosasangalatsa.
16. Nthawi zina ndimachedwa.
17. Nthawi zina ndimachita miseche.
18. Pakati pa anzanga omwe ndimakhala nawo ndi omwe sindiwakonda.
19. Sindikumva chisoni ndi zofooka za anthu omwe sindimakonda.
20. Ndinafika mochedwa.
21. Nthawi zina ndimadzitama.
22. Nthawi zina sindikufuna kuchita chirichonse.
23. Ndili ndi malingaliro akuti ndikuchita manyazi kunena kwa wina.
24. Nthawi zina ndimapweteka munthu wina.
25. Zinkachitika kuti ndimanena bodza.
26. Zomwe ndimakonda zimakhala zabwino.
27. Ngakhale zilizonse, ndidzasunga lonjezo langa.
28. Nthawi zina ndimatha kudzitama.
29. Pamene ndinali wachinyamata, ndinali ndi chidwi ndi nkhani zoletsedwa.
30. Nthaŵi zina ndimazengereza mawa zomwe ziri zofunika kuchita lero.
31. Ndikuganiza kuti ndiyenera kuchita manyazi.
32. Nthawi zina ndimatsutsana ndi zomwe sindikudziwa.
33. Sindimakonda anzanga onse.
34. Ndikhoza kunena zoipa za wina.

Lembani mayankho a "inde" ku mafunso awa: 1, 3, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25. , 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, ndi nambala ya mayankho oti "ayi" ku mafunso awa: 2, 4, 7, 13, 26, 27. Sungani manambala ndi onani zotsatira:

• 0 - 5 mfundo. Kulakalaka kunama, kudzikweza;
• 6 - 13 mfundo. Chotsitsa cha khalidwe labwino, chilakolako chodzipangitsa okha ndi kubisa zolakwika;
• Mfundo 14 - 29. Zotsatira zomveka. Palibe chizolowezi chonyenga, kuwona mtima ndichibadwa;
• Masamba 30 mpaka 34. Mwachidziwikire, kudzidalira nokha, zotsatira zingathe kupotozedwa mwadala.

Munthu wabwino sangakhale wosakhulupirika, wodzimva yekha kapena wamwano, chifundo ndi ulemu zimayendera nthawi zonse.