Hikikomori - ndi ndani? Otaika, anthu ochotsedwa pakati pa anthu kapena anthu ochepetseka, omwe machitidwe ambiri a chikhalidwe sali oimira mtengo uliwonse? Hikka - dzina lophiphiritsira limakhala dzina la banja la achinyamata onse.
Hikikomori - ndani uyu?
Hikikomori ndi mawu achijapani omwe amafotokoza achinyamata a ku Japan omwe apita kumalo osungulumwa ndipo adasankha kundende. Amakana kusiya makolo awo. Chochitika cha maé - chikondi chachibadwidwe cha amayi kwa ana chimalimbikitsa kudzipatula kwakukulu: ndi kosavuta kuti mayi avomereze mwana wake monga momwe aliri komanso amudyetse, pa msinkhu uliwonse, m'malo mochotsedwa kunja kwa chipinda ndikubwezereranso ku moyo wodziimira. Hikikomori ndi chikhalidwe chomwe chagwira mayiko ambiri omwe akutukuka.
Zizindikiro za hikikomori
Kodi hikka ikutanthauzanji ndipo mungaganize bwanji munthu amene pang'onopang'ono akudzipatula yekha? Nthawi zina zimachitika pang'onopang'ono, koma nthawi zambiri mwadzidzidzi. Kodi hikikomori, chizindikiro cha chizindikiritso cha kusungidwa:
- Yesetsani kupewa zochitika kunja;
- sambani kucheza ndi anzanu kapena mulibenso abwenzi;
- kugona usiku, kugona usiku kuseri kwa kompyutalala: masewera, kuwerengera masewera (manga), kuwona anime:
- chikhalidwe chofanana ndi zovuta ndi kukhumudwa: milomo ya milomo imachepetsedwa, pamaso a kusungunuka.
Kodi mungakhale bwanji hikikomori?
Momwe mungakhalire hickey m'mabuku amakono, osati chilakolako chokhala chimodzi, koma chiwonetsero cha moyo ndi mavuto omwe aperekedwa kwa munthu. Mpata wokhala hikikomori ndi wapamwamba pakati pa omwe:
- ali ndi zofooka za thupi (invalids);
- awonetseni chisokonezo chawo pakati pa anzanu akusukulu;
- analandira zowawa zapamtima ;
- kumverera kuti palibe amene amamvetsa;
- ali ndi chiwerengero cha matenda a autism spectrum ( matenda a Asperger ), neuroses, ndi kupsinjika maganizo.
Kodi mungaleke bwanji kukhala hikikomori?
Momwe mungalekerere kukhala hickey, ngati pali mphamvu ndikufunika kubwerera pachifuwa cha anthu? Sikuti achinyamata onse omwe asankha njira ya hikikomori amamva kukhutira ndi moyo watsekedwa, koma amachititsa chidwi cha maganizo ndi chiopsezo chokha chimene sichipeza kuti chidziwitso pakati pa anthu chimachititsa munthu kudzipatula yekha. Kwa iwo omwe ali otopa ndi kukhala osowa, malangizo othandiza angathandize:
- onetsetsani mantha amene amakulepheretsani kulowa m'gulu lanu ndikupeza zopindulitsa zanu;
- kusunga zolemba zaumwini ndi kufotokoza za boma ndi zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku (maganizo, malingaliro, zochita);
- Kamodzi pa sabata, kuwerenga diary yanu ndi kufufuza kuti zinthu zomwezo zikuchitika, limalimbikitsa kusintha kochepa;
- kugwira ntchito ndi kukhululukidwa kwa makolo, abwenzi, ndekha;
- funsani thandizo kuchokera kwa achibale;
- khalani ndi cholinga chochepa tsiku lililonse: masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuyankhulana ndi anzanu akale (poyamba kudzera pa intaneti).
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi hikikomori?
Matenda a hikikomori omwe ali ndi mayiko a ku Asia omwe ali ochepa. Momwe mungathandizire hikikomori kachiwiri kuti azicheza nawo ndi funso lovuta, chifukwa aliyense hikka ndi munthu aliyense payekha ndipo nkofunika kumvetsa chomwe chinali chifukwa chodzipatula. Akatswiri amakhulupirira kuti nthawi zambiri pa nthawi yoyamba nkofunikira kukopa munthu mwakachetechete. Ngati wachinyamata akukhala mu chipinda, zimakhala zobvuta kumubweretsanso kumudzi. Gawo laling'ono la hickey limasankha kubwerera ku gulu kachiwiri. Kukonzekera kwa hikikomori n'kosavuta ngati:
- nthawi yaying'ono yadutsa kuchokera nthawi ya kumapeto;
- Anapereka thandizo lothandizira maganizo (kuti ayambe kutali);
- achibale akuphatikizidwa pakukonzekera momwe angathere ndipo akuthandizidwa panthawi yonseyi.
Ntchito ya hikikomori
Moyo wa hikikomori ndi kudzipatula kwathunthu kuchokera kwa anthu, pamene anthu onse amacheza amachotsedwa kapena kuthandizidwa pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Mbali imodzi yofunikira ya kukhazikitsa bwino anthu ndi ntchito, koma hikikomori amakana ntchito iliyonse ndipo saona lingaliro lililonse. Miyezo yonse yofunikira kwa munthu wamba, chifukwa hickey sichikondweretsa. Ku Japan, anthu 10 pa 100 alionse amakhala panyumba kuyambira ali ana ndipo safuna kupeza ntchito, kudalira makolo. Kawirikawiri hikikomori amakhala ndi chifukwa cholephera kupeza ntchito.
Books about hikikomori
Matenda a hikikomori amavomerezedwa ndi olemba. Mabuku pa nkhaniyi si ochuluka, koma olemba omwe analemba za anthu oterowo amafotokoza kukula kwa dziko, malingaliro ndi moyo wa ankhondo. Mabuku okhudza anthu omwe avomereza kudzipatula:
- "Ndimadya chete ndi zikho." Finkel Michael . Bukuli ndi lofotokoza za Christopher Nite, yemwe adatha zaka 27 zapitazo m'nkhalango kumpoto kwa Maine. Mchaka cha 2013, Christopher anagwidwa, atagwira chakudya kuchokera kumsasa, atamva za ndende, anthu ambiri: atolankhani ndi oyendayenda anabwera kudzalankhula ndi Christopher, kumufunsa mafunso osangalatsa: kodi adapeza chisangalalo ndi bata, nanga adapulumuka bwanji.
- "Mitundu" ya Ryu Murakami . Pewani Uihara akulandira kuchokera kwa mayi ake ngati makompyuta apamtima ndipo mumsewu amadziwa gulu "Inter-Bio", omwe mamembala awo amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi ufulu wopha anthu. Ntchito yowopsya yokhudza kufunafuna munthu wolimbana ndi cholinga cha moyo motsutsana ndi chiyambi cha kupha miyambo yambiri komanso kusokoneza.
- "Hikikomori" Kuvin Kun . Kusanthula buku la psychology ya achinyamata ndi hikikomori, zomwe zimawathandiza kuti ayesetse kusungidwa. Chochitika china chomwe chinachitika mmoyo wa mnyamata wamba, Till, akusintha maganizo ake, amasiya banja, amadzibisa yekha ndipo chipinda chake ndikutumizirana kudzera pa intaneti.
Mafilimu a Hikikomori
Who is hikikomori, zifukwa zokhalira kudzipatula ndi zomwe zimachitika kwa munthu wotero tingaone m'mafilimu otsatirawa:
- Circle Circle . Mtsikana wokongola Abigail wakhala yekha kwa zaka pafupifupi makumi awiri popanda kuchoka ku Manhattan. Amalankhulana ndi anthu awiri okha: woyendetsa nyumbayo ndi mnzake wachikulire, Dr. Raymond. Koma nthawi yafika pamene Abigail akuyang'anizana ndi mantha chifukwa cha zochitika m'nyumbayo.
- "Ndinu ndani?" / Krai Nai Hong » . Nida, wogulitsa DVD, adakangana ndi mwana wake Ton, yemwe adatsekera m'chipinda kwa zaka zisanu ndikuyankhula ndi dziko lakunja kudzera muzolemba, panthawiyi zoopsa zinachitika. Anthu amayamba kuda nkhaŵa: Kodi ndani atsekedwa pakhomo, mwana wamwamuna wachinyamata yemwe ndi wachinyamata kapena wachinyama?
- "Tomasi akukondana ndi amoureux" . Wopambana wa filimuyi Tom akudwala agoraphobia ndipo amakhudzidwa kwambiri polumikizana ndi atsikana omwe ali pa kompyuta. Pa uphungu wa webusaiti yake, amaganiza kuti adziwana ndi mtsikana weniweni mu chipinda choyankhulana ndi kukondana, chochitika ichi chimakhala chosangalatsa kwa iye, chifukwa kuti apeze chikondi ... munthu ayenera kuchoka panyumbamo.