Kulingalira ndi lingaliro losasinthasintha, lomwe, mwachidziwitso, liyenera kukhala lofanana, koma, monga limakhala nthawi zambiri, limasiyana mosiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina pamakhala malingaliro akuti nzeru ndi mtundu wa nthano, omwe okondedwa athu ambiri amakonda kulira:
- "Mumachita zinthu zosemphana ndi maganizo olakwika!"
- "Izi zimatsutsana ndi lingaliro lodziwika bwino!"
- "Palibe chifukwa chake! Zabwino-zedi! "
Ndi kangati timamva mau awa kuchokera kwa amayi ndi abambo athu, kuchokera kwa okondedwa athu komanso ngakhale abwana kuntchito. Nthawi zambiri amatiuza izi chifukwa zina mwazochita zathu "sizikugwirizana" ndi chitsanzo chawo cha dziko lapansi. Kuti, mwachidziwikire, ndi zomveka, chifukwa anthu ali ndi zosiyana zosiyana za mibadwo yosiyanasiyana, mibadwo ndi kulera.
Mwachidziwikire, kulingalira ndi kuphatikiza maganizo ndi zochitika ku dziko lozungulira ife. Ndi iye yemwe, monga lamulo, amatsutsana ndi makhalidwe aumunthu. Iyi ndiyo njira yodziwika yowonongeka pa zomwe zikuchitika mdziko lapansi, maluso ndi zopindulitsa za mibadwo yonse ya anthu, nthawi ndi malingaliro omwe iwo anali ogwirizana ndi wina ndi mzake - motero - analandira chitsanzo ichi choganiza - chabwino ndi cholondola. Kulingalira kumamangiriza kwambiri anthu ku miyambo.
Kulingalira mu dziko lamakono
Afilosofi adatanthauzira mawu oti "luntha", monga chinthu chimene munthu mwachibadwa, amachimvetsa mwachidziwitso kuti adziwe choonadi. Amadutsa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo, kuchokera kwa kholo kupita kwa mwana. Izi ndizo nzeru ndi nzeru.
Komabe, nkoyenera kuvomereza kuti m'nthawi yathu anthu amagwiritsa ntchito mawuwa mmalo momangirira kutsutsika kwa zochita za munthu uyu kapena munthuyo. Zosautsika zili pambali pawo. Kulingalira ndi mtundu wa "mchimwene wamkulu", kutsutsana maganizo, kukhudzidwa, kukhudzidwa, komanso nthawi zina, ngakhale adventurism. Kuchita zosemphana ndi nzeru yodziwika kumatanthawuza kupanga uncharacteristic, kwa anthu ambiri, zochita.
Nthawi zambiri mawu awa amamveka kwa anthu "osati a dziko lapansi," ndiko kuti, anthu opanga, kapena adiresi ya achinyamata. Kawirikawiri sagwira ntchito mwanjira yeniyeni ndipo chidziwitso chodziwika chimati. "Kutengeka" kotereku kuchokera ku miyezo yomwe anthu ambiri amavomereza ndi zikhalidwe zimapangitsa kukwanitsa kuganiza, kuyambitsa zinthu zatsopano, kusintha ndi kulenga.
Mwinamwake, poyamba - kudalira luntha labwino - ndilo lonjezo la chitukuko choyenerera ndi choyenerera cha munthu payekha. Kutaya kwake konse - kuthekera kuti mungathe "kukangamira" mu zinthu zina zosasangalatsa: kubwerera kunyumba kwa mtsikana wina mtsogolo ndi m'malo amdima - opanda nzeru; gwiritsani ntchito bizinesi (ntchito, phunziro), musachite zomwe muyenera - komanso zosamveka. Zonsezi zidzakufikitsani ku zotsatira zina. Funso lokhalo ndilo: kodi izi ndi zotsatira zomwe mumafuna?
Koma musakhulupirire ngati mwadzidzidzi amakulepheretsani kuchita zomwe mumalakalaka ndikuzifuna. Chibadwa cha kudzipulumutsa chili mwa ife ndipo sichidzalola kuti tidziwononge tokha. Ngati wina amvetsetsa nzeru ndi luso lopanga chisankho choyenera malinga ndi momwe munthu waperekera, kupanga lingaliro loyenera, lomwe lidzakhazikitsidwa ndi kulingalira kwanzeru ndi zomwe adazipeza zaka zambiri. Ponena za kuti wina ali ndi malingaliro oterowo, timanena kuti munthu akhoza kuthana ndi tsankho, mantha ndi zopusitsa. Kuti zomwe akumana nazo ndizokwanira kufufuza bwinobwino deta yonse ndikupanga kusankha kwabwino. Ndipo chisankho ichi chidzakhala chisokonezo pakati pa anthu ndi dziko lapansi.